90 Day Fiance stars Tom Brooks and Darcey Silva will be starring on the upcoming fourth season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, but what's the latest on their relationship -- are they still together?

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[90 Day Fiance Spoilers: This article contains spoilers revealing if Tom and Darcey are still together and will spoil their 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days season for you].

Tom, a 39-year-old from Nottingham, United Kingdom, and Darcey, a 45-year-old from Middletown, CT, will be appearing on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' new season when it premieres Sunday, February 23 at 8PM ET/PT on TLC.

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Darcey -- who also appeared on Seasons 1 and 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days with her now-ex Jesse Meester -- was shown traveling to England and falling in love with Tom on last year's third season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

When Darcey first arrived in Tom's stomping grounds, they weren't on the same page. In Darcey's mind, she and Tom had been dating and getting to know each other for years already, but in Tom's mind, they had just met and were feeling things out.

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"I'm not really at the stage of thinking where I'm going to settle down, get married, have kids, and move to her country or have her move here," Tom told his sister Emma last season.

"I'm at the point where I'm meeting someone I've been really good friends with and I'm going to see where it goes."

Tom said Darcey lived in "a bit of a fantasy" when it comes to romance and he didn't want to rush things.

But Darcey quickly found herself smitten with Tom and hoping he'd propose marriage although he was somewhat guarded due to being hurt in the past. Tom, however, found Darcey to be very emotional and "a little difficult to deal with."

As the season progressed, Tom found himself wanting a serious relationship with Darcey, who was willing to give the businessman all of her time and attention. Tom came to believe Darcey is a good woman with great intentions.


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So while enjoying their last dinner together in England at the end of Darcey's stay, Tom told the mother of two, "Here's to loving and to knowing what love is -- and knowing that when you have it, you should hold on to it."

"I do love you," Tom told Darcey. "I've always loved you. I'm actually in love with you, very much so."

"I love you," Darcey replied.

Tom then presented Darcey with a small box, and she clearly thought an engagement ring was going to be inside. However, Tom offered her the key to his house instead.

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"You can come and go as you please," Tom noted.

When the pair said goodbye at the airport, Tom told Darcey after hugging and kissing her, "It's not goodbye; it's see you soon... I do see a future with us together."

Darcey was optimistic about her future with Tom, but she was well aware of how hard long-distance relationships can be.

The season finale of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' third season showed Tom breaking up with Darcey just a few weeks after she returned to America from her trip to England.

"I saw myself marrying Tom one day. Dated Jesse for two years and then it faded, and here we go again," Darcey said in a confessional during the episode.


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"I'm just going to keep going on with my life, and if someone else comes along that feels right, I'm going to move on with my life."

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But heading into the Tell-All special, Tom said his relationship with Darcey was "complicated" because he loved her very much. He wanted to see if being a couple long-term was a real possibility.

Darcey and Tom left off trying to make their complicated relationship work after filming the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' third season, which aired on TLC in October 2019.

TLC teased the following of Tom and Darcey when the network had announced the Season 4 cast of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days: "Darcey is back and continuing to test the waters with her British 'James Bond,' Tom... Now, viewers will continue to follow the pair as they try to resolve their differences and find out if being together forever is in their future."


In a preview for Season 4 of Before the 90 Days, Darcey is shown saying, "I don't trust Tom. I feel like he is hiding something."

And based on Tom's public social-media activity late last year, he was apparently feeling a similar way about Darcey.

So what happened between Tom and Darcey? Did the 90 Day Fiance couple split or are they still together?

Tom planned to spend a full day with Darcey in New York City after filming the Tell-All for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' third season last year, but their romance fizzled out after that.

Tom was even spotted with a Darcey look-alike in September 2019.

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A month later, Darcey confirmed in an Instagram posting she was single and looking for a new man.


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"Single and ready to mingle! Done with the past," wrote Darcey.

A couple of weeks later, Darcey also announced she was planning to move to Los Angeles.

"Excited for what the future holds! I'm ready for a sexy and manly Aussie! Let's go down under! Will always keep my heart open to life and real love!"

Darcey -- who isn't giving up her search for love overseas -- subsequently deleted her post, however it was captured by 90 Day Fiance Instagrammer John Yates prior to its deletion.

According to an In Touch Weekly source, Darcey will move to Los Angeles with her teenage daughters Aniko and Aspen and twin sister Stacey Silva this summer.

"Darcey and Stacey are indeed moving to Los Angeles and Darcey's bringing the girls," the source said.


"She will set things up and make sure everything's ready while her daughters finish out their school year in Connecticut until summer when they'll all make the official move on the West Coast."

In November 2019, Tom revealed on social media he had apologized to Jesse, who subsequently claimed the two men had "both been manipulated" by Darcey.

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Tom and Jesse even met up in New York City a few days later and were spotted having coffee at a restaurant together.

Tom then briefly debuted his alleged new girlfriend, an American woman named Amanda McAdams, on Instagram in January and suggested he was moving to New York City with her.

"Beauty is fleeting, but a rent-controlled apartment overlooking the park is forever," Tom captioned a photo he later deleted showing Amanda straddling his waist on New York's Central Park bridge.


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"Want to move in together?"

Tom also added the following hashtags to his post: #sexandthecitystyle #nyc #newyork #newyorkcity #brooklyn #manhattan #ny #fashion #love #hiphop #queens #music #art #bronx #photography #usa #miami #instagood #travel #photooftheday #la #instagram #artist #style #rap #losangeles #repost #london #like #follow.

Tom was quoting Sex and the City character Carrie Bradshaw in the posting.

Given the trees in the background of the romantic photo feature colorful leaves, it appears this photo was taken in Fall 2019.

Jesse also commented on Tom's post before it was deleted.

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"See you soon new neighbour! Beautiful pic. Love to you both," Jesse wrote, along with heart and praying-hands emojis.

Tom and Amanda, who is reportedly an event planner and executive assistant in New York City, began dating in November 2019, according to Soap Dirt.

Tom reportedly celebrated the Christmas holiday last year in Amanda's hometown of Pittsburgh, PA with her parents Nancy McAdams and Robert McAdams even though the couple had only been dating a couple of months.

Given Tom and Darcey openly broke up last fall, Amanda -- who allegedly dated a British man before -- would potentially give Tom another chance for a K-1 visa to move to the United States, as well as possibly continue starring on TLC.

According to a source close to her family, Amanda, a 35-year-old tattooed blonde who currently lives in Long Island, NY, would jump at the chance to star on a reality show with Tom if he ended up on an additional season of a 90 Day Fiance spinoff.

"[Amanda] wouldn't hesitate to accept if offered a role," the source told Soap Dirt, adding that Tom's new love wants "notoriety of any kind."


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About The Author: Elizabeth Kwiatkowski
Elizabeth Kwiatkowski is Associate Editor of Reality TV World and has been covering the reality TV genre for more than a decade.