90 Day Fiance: The Other Way featured Daniele claiming Yohan is a "monster" who had been cheating on her for years, Kimberly feeling depressed and screaming her head off at TJ, and Shekinah giving Sarper another chance during the Season 5 episode that aired Monday night on TLC.
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The show also stars Brandan, a 23-year-old from Oregon, and Mary, a 23-year-old from the Philippines; Holly, a 44-year-old from Utah, and Wayne, a 40-year-old from South Africa; Tejaswi or "TJ," a 33-year-old from India, and Kimberly, a 30-year-old from Alabama; Kirsten, a 24-year-old from the Netherlands, and Julio, a 27-year-old from New York; and Sarper, a 43-year-old from Turkey, and Shekinah, a 41-year-old from Los Angeles.
Daniele and Yohan originally appeared on 90 Day Fiance's Love in Paradise: The Caribbean before appearing on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fourth season. They were last shown breaking up on the show's Tell-All.
Kenny and Armando previously starred on Season 2 and Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way follows American citizens moving to or living in foreign countries for the sake of love and their future spouses and experiencing culture shock.
Below is what happened on Episode 21 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fifth season.
SHEKINAH and SARPER
Shekinah and Sarper were still on the outs after their argument over having children. Sarper apparently wanted to be a father desperately while Shekinah doesn't want any more kids and had allegedly told Sarper that at the start of their relationship.Sarper had told Shekinah to book a flight home, and so she began packing all of her things to go to a hotel.
Sarper let Shekinah know that he didn't actually want her to leave, but she pointed out how he had said mean things, treated her poorly and caused her anxiety. Shekinah couldn't believe Sarper would put that kind of pressure on her about kids.
"Don't pack your stuff," Sarper requested.
"You said in two days that you were going to forget me... You want to have children? You are a child!" Shekinah snapped at Sarper. "You are acting crazy."
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOWShekinah said that what Sarper wanted wasn't realistic or fair to her, and she suggested that they should take some time apart.
"I delete you if you go from this house," Sarper said.
"Then I'm definitely going! If that's how you're going to treat me, then there's no reason for me to stay... That's f-cked up," Shekinah argued.
Shekinah asked Sarper to leave her alone so that she could pack, but he looked utterly distraught.
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Shekinah proceeded to ignore Sarper for two days, which prompted Sarper to work harder for her affection and beg for forgiveness. Sarper told Shekinah that he was "so sorry" and was feeling so much sorrow. He asked her for a second chance.
Shekinah couldn't forget about the things Sarper had said to her, but she decided to meet up with him and hear him out. At this point, Shekinah thought there was a strong chance her relationship was going to be over.
When Shekinah met up with Sarper, he had a big bouquet of flowers in hand. Sarper said he felt "so guilty and terrible" about his behavior that he could barely breathe.
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Sarper told Shekinah that he felt totally ashamed of himself and it would take two decades for him to be able to forget and get over Shekinah. Sarper repeatedly apologized and insisted how he saw a future with Shekinah, even if they never have a baby together.
"I will never insist anything on you -- ever -- from now on," Sarper insisted.
Sarper said he couldn't imagine his life without Shekinah and so he'd forget his desire to have kids in order to keep her and resume their relationship.
Shekinah feared Sarper's desire to have a child wouldn't go away overnight, and that made her really uncertain about how to proceed in the relationship. She couldn't trust that Sarper wouldn't keep changing his mind.
"I will never push you into something that you don't want, okay? Never! I'm so sorry," Sarper said.
Shekinah could tell that Sarper was genuinely sorry, and so she opted to forgive him and try again.
MARY and BRANDAN
During Mary and Brandan's wedding reception in the Philippines, there was an infestation of beetles that apparently bit the groom, the bride and all of their guests.There were apparently millions of bugs, and so all of the people at the party had to evacuate.
Everyone was freaking out and scared, especially Brandan's mother Angela, who started hyperventilating and having a panic attack.
Angela was crying and Brandan attempted to help her calm down and take deep breaths.
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"I have never experienced something literally so traumatic to me," Angela vented to the 90 Day Fiance cameras.
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"It's chaos," Mary lamented in a confessional. "I'm trying to stay calm, but I'm scared. Some of the bugs are inside of my dress biting me."
At one point, Brandan tried to swat away the bugs with his hand and he lost his wedding ring. Brandan tried to frantically look for his new ring on the ground as beetles swarmed all around him.
Brandan ultimately found his ring, but it didn't change the fact that Mary was miserable and in pain. Brandan hoped the bugs weren't going to ruin his marriage, but they certainly ruined the reception.
"We didn't even get to eat cake! I mean, come on!" Brandan vented to the 90 Day Fiance cameras.
Mary said exchanging vows with Brandan was the most important part, and so they managed to smile and eat cake together that evening.
Angela said she was very proud of her son and new daughter-in-law, and she thought they had what it would take to have a successful, happy and healthy marriage. Angela even gave Mary a big hug, which brought Brandan's new wife to tears.
Brandan also promised Mary that he was ready to be a good husband and he wouldn't let her down. He intended to look for a job and support his wife and baby-to-be.
With that being said, Mary became optimistic and called it "a new start" for them.
KIMBERLY and TEJASWI
TJ was shown eating with his family downstairs without Kimberly present, and TJ's loved ones wished Kimberly would spend more time with them and be more involved in their household activities.TJ's mother and brother felt "disrespected," according to TJ, and they just wanted to feel like one big, happy family. TJ's family was also afraid to go upstairs since Kimberly was keeping to herself.
TJ was tired of his family complaining, and he didn't know how to handle the situation.
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TJ's brother felt like they were living as two different families, and his mother didn't like feeling like her daughter-in-law was a tenant or stranger living in her house.
"I am stuck in the middle. What do I do?" TJ asked his mom.
"I am in the worst scenario right now... I never get an opportunity to express my frustration. I'm completely at a breaking point. They need to compromise and understand each other, or else I don't know what's going to happen between me and my family, or me and Kimberly."
TJ's brother then announced how by God's grace, he would hopefully marry a Hindu girl only.
For Kimberly's part, three months had passed since her wedding, and Kimberly said they weren't having a blissful honeymoon stage. While TJ worked every day, Kimberly was stuck in their small apartment, which she found very isolating.
Kimberly also didn't speak the language very well, and so she relied on TJ when they went out together. She also didn't want to go downstairs because there was often conflict with TJ's family.
Kimberly claimed that TJ's family met her with hostile looks and wouldn't even greet her.
"Even though I live in a house with so many different people, I feel so alone," Kimberly complained in a confessional.
Footage then aired of one of Kimberly's diary cams. She admitted how it was hard for her to wake up with a positive attitude, being thankful for each and every day, and when she tried to talk to TJ about her depression, he'd become "defensive and accusatory."
Kimberly believed her mental health was crumbling around her and that something needed to change.
"Right now, my life in India is the worst. Like, I wouldn't wish this life on anybody," Kimberly confessed to the 90 Day Fiance cameras.
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TJ suggested that was a common problem, but Kimberly disagreed. She also pointed out how they'd go days without talking if they got into an argument.
Kimberly insisted that she wasn't ignoring TJ's family, that she just didn't have anything to say and she wasn't on good terms with them. Kimberly said no one wanted to solve the problem, and then TJ called Kimberly crazy.
"You're not acting like a wife right now," TJ said.
"I just told you a few minutes ago that I'm f-cking depressed," Kimberly clapped back.
TJ accused Kimberly of creating drama, and he said that if she felt alone, she could return to the United States.
Kimberly started to cry because she said she wanted to be with her husband, yet it felt like her husband didn't want to be with her.
"You want to find a new person?" TJ asked.
"Why do you say that stuff?!" Kimberly asked.
TJ felt helpless, like he couldn't do anything to fix their issues, but Kimberly explained how she just wanted his support and for him to listen to her.
"What's the solution? You going back to the U.S.? I'm okay with that," TJ said.
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"What do you expect from me?" TJ asked.
"Maybe give me a f-cking hug and say, 'I'm sorry you're f-cking depressed!'" Kimberly screamed.
TJ replied, "I'm not doing that," and Kimberly responded, "I know -- and you never will!"
Kimberly said she needed support from the man she had made marriage vows to and this man wasn't holding up his end of the bargain.
Kimberly thought she was fulfilling her duties as a wife, but TJ said he didn't feel emotionally supported either.
Kimberly insisted she was trying her best and couldn't do this anymore. TJ told Kimberly that she had the right to separate from him, and then Kimberly yelled how she didn't want to separate from him.
"Because I'm a d-ck?" TJ asked.
"No, I said I don't! God damnit!" Kimberly yelled, because putting her hands over her head and letting out the loudest scream ever. "Shut up!"
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TJ accused Kimberly of ruining their relationship, but she said he had already ruined it and she hated him.
TJ then ran downstairs and vented about how Kimberly was making his life "miserable" and he was fed up. TJ's mother told him to let Kimberly go back to America and break up.
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DANIELE and YOHAN
Daniele was shown cleaning up her apartment and packing some of Yohan's things. Before, Daniele didn't want Yohan to take anything she had paid for because she didn't think he deserved it, but now, she didn't want "anything to do with anything he ever touched."It had been a month since Yohan officially moved out, and Daniele was spending her last day in the apartment. She was about to host a retreat, and so she planned to stay at that place while figuring out her next move.
"I've learned some things over the course of the last week that make me not care to fight for this marriage any longer. I don't want anything to do with Yohan," Daniele explained.
A woman had written to Daniele on social media to inform her that she'd been in a relationship with Yohan for two years, which was before Daniele and Yohan even got married. The woman asked Daniele if she and Yohan were really getting a divorce.
Yohan apparently asked the woman to pay for his divorce. When Daniele asked the woman for screenshots of her conversations with Yohan, the woman claimed to have "some intimate photos and some audio."
"She told me that she met his father and his nephew and gave them money," Daniele said.
According to one of the screenshots of Daniele's text exchange with this woman, the woman claimed she had traveled to see Yohan in August and she gave him money for a mortgage payment for his parents' house.
The woman also alleged she was with Yohan in August while Daniele was away at a retreat.
"She said she had sex with him for all of these years and she knew he was married -- and that he brought her to our apartment complex," Daniele said.
"And now she decides to write to me like she's doing me a favor. She probably reached out to me to get me to this place so that now they can live happily ever after."
The woman apparently described her entire relationship with Yohan to Daniele, with a picture of Yohan's junk as evidence. Yohan allegedly sent this woman a picture of his penis while Daniele was handing out gifts on Christmas Eve to the children in his neighborhood.
Daniele said she never thought that Yohan was capable of such behavior, and she added, "I think I've been wearing rose-colored glasses this entire time. I think the Yohan I was seeing or believing was there was never actually in front of me."
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Daniele also went through Yohan's computer and allegedly found more evidence of relationships Yohan had been in with other women. He allegedly spent the night with some of these women.
"There are at least six different women I know had an inappropriate relationship with my husband," Daniele shared. "He's reached out to them and asked for money or has had video conversations with them and made plans to meet up with [them]."
Daniele told the 90 Day Fiance cameras that although he constantly complained about being broke, he had been receiving money "from multiple b-tches."
Daniele claimed that Yohan refused to have a conversation with her about his infidelity.
"I sent him a picture of his d-ck and was like, 'You sent this to this b-tch on Christmas Eve. Here is a photo of the conversation,' and he was like, 'Oh, I did? I don't remember.' F-ck you! I want nothing to do with this man ever again," Daniele said.
Daniele admitted she felt foolish because when she and Yohan weren't talking about money, they were so happy together.
"We had such a beautiful life, and now I know none of it was real. It was just a game," Daniele cried. "I want to believe he really loved me, but when you love someone, you don't treat them this way. Yeah, he's a monster."
Daniele needed more time and space to process her relationship with Yohan before determining her next move in life.
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