'90 Day Fiance: The Other Way' recap: Brandan "disgraces" Mary's family, Daniele slams Yohan as "a kept man," and Kimberly kicks off wedding

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way featured Brandan "disgracing" Mary's family and Mary telling him to return to the U.S. amid her pregnancy, Daniele accusing Yohan of wanting to be "a kept man," Kimberly kicking off her wedding festivities on the wrong foot, and Holly and Wayne consummating their marriage during the Season 5 episode that aired Monday night on TLC.


Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way also stars Brandan, a 23-year-old from Oregon, and Mary, a 23-year-old from the Philippines; Holly, a 44-year-old from Utah, and Wayne, a 40-year-old from South Africa; Tejaswi or "TJ," a 33-year-old from India, and Kimberly, a 30-year-old from Alabama; Kirsten, a 24-year-old from the Netherlands, and Julio, a 27-year-old from New York; and Sarper, a 43-year-old from Turkey, and Shekinah, a 41-year-old from Los Angeles.

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The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way season also stars Daniele, 42, and Yohan, 33, as well as Kenny, 60, and Armando, 34.

Daniele and Yohan originally appeared on 90 Day Fiance's Love in Paradise: The Caribbean before appearing on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fourth season. They were last shown breaking up on the show's Tell-All.


Kenny and Armando previously starred on Season 2 and Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way follows American citizens moving to or living in foreign countries for the sake of love and their future spouses and experiencing culture shock.

Below is what happened on Episode 14 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fifth season.

Kimberly and TJ

It was Day 1 of Kimberly and TJ's wedding events, which was going to be a two-day celebration full of activities for over 200 guests. They had colorful decor, food stations, and elements of tradition and worship leading up to the ceremony.

However, Kimberly woke up feeling sick.


"I sh-t my pants," Kimberly lamented. "Who wants to start their wedding that way?! Nobody!"

The first ceremony of the day was the Mehndi ceremony, when Kimberly had henna painted on her hands and feet.

Kimberly was hanging out with women she didn't know and couldn't communicate with -- including TJ's mother Alka -- and so she said it was very awkward. The women asked Kimberly to put a smile on her face.

"I don't want to be a b-tch of a bride right now, and I really do appreciate all of these rituals that we're doing. But I'm not feeling well and my stomach is still upset -- and I'm feeling so lonely. It's not the feeling I thought I would have on my wedding day," Kimberly explained in a confessional.

Kimberly also apparently had a fever, and TJ was worried about "bad vibes" being in the air. He hoped Kimberly would stop being negative and instead feel positive about the exciting things they had coming up. Luckily, TJ kissed Kimberly and managed to make her laugh.


"Sometimes Kimberly can be difficult.... I don't know what's going to happen," TJ lamented to the cameras.

Later on, TJ's brother Yash sat down next to Kimberly, who admitted she could be a handful. Kimberly said it hurt her feelings when he called her stupid, and Yash assured her that wasn't the case.

Yash also apologized for being mean during their fight, and Kimberly accepted it. Kimberly pointed out how they were both mature enough to talk through their problems and ultimately get along.

Now that everything was smoothed over, Kimberly got excited about the rest of the day. Kimberly got to wear many different outfits, showing off numerous hairstyles and makeup changes as well.

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Kimberly had a bridal shower in which she received many gifts called Anjali, which means "filling up your lap." Kimberly even had to sit on TJ's mother's lap to signify their new mother and daughter relationship.

The final event was Sangeet, a dance ceremony for family and friends. There were professional dancers, and TJ's loved ones also got up onstage and let loose.

TJ convinced Kimberly to show off her moves, and he showed her what to do. Kimberly made some goofy faces and had a good time, even though dancing isn't her forte.

At the end of the day, Kimberly and TJ hugged and kissed each other, and TJ teased a giant celebration to come.

"I ended up having a lot of fun, and I'm super excited about tomorrow, to marry the man of my dreams," Kimberly told the cameras.

MARY and BRANDAN

Mary woke up with a fever and was feeling dizzy. Her grandmother had warned Mary that she wasn't ready to get pregnant, and so since it happened, she acknowledged how Mary must face the consequences. Mary and Brandan were also fighting, and Mary's grandmother feared this would negatively impact the child.

Mary complained about how her fighting with Brandan got worse after their marriage proposal.

"He is always shouting and always slamming the door. This morning, we got in a huge fight when he was watching the TV with a volume of 100. I asked him to lower the volume, but he won't listen," Mary complained. "He says bad words like, 'F-ck you Mary,' and everyone can hear!"

Brandan was shown swearing about the situation before taking off, which is something Mary said Brandan did pretty frequently.

Brandan explained to a producer how he just needed to escape that unhealthy and toxic environment. Brandan said when times got tough when he was younger, he'd just get away -- and so that's how he learned to calm down and deal with things.

"We fight more about I'm sleeping in or if I'm playing a game too much, and yeah, maybe I could try harder around the house. But I'm not just doing nothing. If she's hungry, I'm trying to get her food, and if she wants her back scrubbed, I help out," Brandan insisted.


Brandan said people were gossiping about their relationship but he didn't run away to hurt Mary. Brandan said he just needed some space to help his mental state.

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Mary's grandmother advised Mary to have her grandfather talk to Brandan about changing his attitude.

Mary's grandfather had returned from Manila about one week prior, but he was very unhappy about the pre-marriage pregnancy. Mary also believed that her grandfather was upset about the fighting because all of their neighbors could hear.

Mary hoped this honest conversation would help her relationship and have an impact on Brandan's behavior.

Mary then spoke to Brandan about how they shouldn't ignore her grandfather anymore. In fact, they approached him for a conversation.


Brandan apologized to Mary's grandfather, Lolo, for fighting with his granddaughter. Brandan said he was sorry and respected him, but Lolo was upset that Mary was pregnant and Brandan was fighting with her. He called his home "a war zone."

Lolo was also hurt that Mary and Brandan had sex before marriage, and he said they were "disgracing" their neighbors and themselves. Mary broke down into tears about how people were gossiping about her, and Lolo said he didn't want this behavior to continue.

Mary let Brandan know that he had a bad attitude, and the conversation made Brandan feel like he's "not a good person." Brandan said, however, he was feeling a lot of anxiety and stress, which he clearly wasn't handling well.

Brandan promised to try and do better, but he admitted it was going to take time to totally change his ways. Mary said he needed to care more and help her with things.

"Would it be better if I just go back to America then?" Brandan asked Mary.

"Did I say that? If you want that, then go!" Mary replied. "Go. Go. Go back!"


Mary said maybe it would be better for everyone if Brandan just left, and he didn't know how to respond to that.

Mary had doubts that Brandan could be a good father and a good husband, and she said she didn't want their baby to suffer because of their problems.

"What do you want me to do at this point?" Brandan asked his fiancee.

"I don't know, Brandan," Mary responded.

HOLLY and WAYNE

Holly and Wayne were shown waking up next to each other in bed following their wedding night. Holly had gotten pretty drunk at the reception, but they appeared to have a great time.

Both Holly and Wayne felt they had won the lottery with each other, and Holly assured Wayne that he satisfied her during their first sexual encounter as spouses.


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"We have a closeness now, sexually, that we didn't have before... He's kinky and he's into bondage and weird stuff," Holly said. "That's good though, that's what I like! He's not vanilla in the bedroom... and it was fun!"

But Holly wasn't ready for her mother to leave South Africa since she was the only comfort from home she had left. Holly still didn't feel safe in South Africa, and that was a scary thing for her.

YOHAN and DANIELE

Yohan and Daniele were having trouble communicating, and so they sought out a life coach -- a third party to help mediate.

Daniele was looking forward to the therapy session, but she said Yohan didn't like talking about his problems and emotions with strangers. There was apparently a stigma around therapy in the Dominican Republic.

On the drive over, Yohan and Daniele argued about their investments. Yohan apparently wanted to buy a house he could rent out, but Daniele thought it wouldn't make them enough money and that Yohan just wanted to "own" something that he could show off to his family and friends.


"I am not funding your flex," Daniele snapped.

Yohan complained about how Daniele had promised him that he wouldn't need anything if they stayed in the Dominican Republic. But he said she wasn't supporting him financially and that he still paid rent and bought his own food.

Daniele pointed out how she had bought Yohan the shirt and pants he was wearing, arguing that she paid for everything.

"Now you're going to pay for everything, because you want to live here... I am not going to pay one more peso," Yohan said.

Daniele told the cameras that she used Yohan's rent to pay for other things and she paid for vacations, their cars, electricity, and their dog Gizmo's needs.

"You want to be a kept man... I can live [in our apartment] alone," Daniele said.


Yohan was also upset that Daniele couldn't give him a child and that she refused to file paperwork to get him a Green Card.

"Assh-le," Daniele noted, before crying in the car in front of her husband.

"I never thought he had this in him: not willing to contribute, not willing to be an equal partner, punishing me because I can't have a child. If any one of those things happened in one of my friend's relationships, I would be like, 'Get the f-ck out.'"

Daniele told Yohan that she had changed her entire life for him and he didn't deserve a thing from her.

"Is this the relationship that you want? Because this is not the relationship that I want," Daniele said.

"Let's throw this all to sh-t then, period," Yohan clapped back. "That's it."


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