'90 Day Fiance: The Other Way' recap: Kenny and Armando break down, Holly struggles to adapt, and Kimberly fights with TJ's brother

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way featured Kenny and Armando at odds about having a baby via surrogate, Holly struggling to adjust to life in South Africa, and Kimberly getting into a nasty and brutal fight with TJ's brother with no resolution during the Season 5 episode that aired Monday night on TLC.


90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's new season stars Daniele, 42, and Yohan, 33, as well as Kenny, 60, and Armando, 34.

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Daniele and Yohan originally appeared on 90 Day Fiance's Love in Paradise: The Caribbean before appearing on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fourth season. They were last shown breaking up on the show's Tell-All.

Kenny and Armando previously starred on Season 2 and Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.


Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way also stars Brandan, a 23-year-old from Oregon, and Mary, a 23-year-old from the Philippines; Holly, a 44-year-old from Utah, and Wayne, a 40-year-old from South Africa; Tejaswi or "TJ," a 33-year-old from India, and Kimberly, a 30-year-old from Alabama; Kirsten, a 24-year-old from the Netherlands, and Julio, a 27-year-old from New York; and Sarper, a 43-year-old from Turkey, and Shekinah, a 41-year-old from Los Angeles.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way follows American citizens moving to or living in foreign countries for the sake of love and their future spouses and experiencing culture shock.

Below is what happened on Episode 6 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fifth season.

HOLLY and WAYNE

Holly was hiding and crying in a clothing store's fitting room after Wayne had said she looked like a prostitute in her normal, everyday clothing, which tended to be on the sexy and short side.

Wayne wanted Holly to buy more conservative clothing so men would treat her with respect and not hit on her in the streets of South Africa.


Holly said the comment made her feel "betrayed and hurt," especially because Wayne is supposed to be her best friend, teammate, and biggest ally.

Wayne therefore apologized for insulting Holly, and he insisted that he didn't mean the prostitute remark in the way she had interpreted it. Wayne said he just wanted Holly to be happy and safe.

The following day, Wayne took Holly to a self-defense class so she could learn how to protect herself in a robbery situation or altercation. Holly handled herself well in the class, and she boasted about how she's "lethal."

Holly wondered when she'd feel safe enough to go out for a walk or go jogging on her own, and Wayne predicted it would take about six months, which really shocked and disappointed her.

Later on, Holly told Wayne that she had looked at places for them to move. She wanted to feel safer and more comfortable in a gated community, especially because Wayne's place had been broken into three times.


Wayne got upset Holly had booked appointments behind his back, and he said moving made "no sense" to him.

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Wayne said his business was no longer flourishing and he had put a lot of money into his home, including its pool and new security system.

"I haven't been honest with her about how bad my [financial situation] has gotten," Wayne told the cameras, adding how one of his friends had gotten shot through a gate at one of the communities Holly hoped to live in.

Wayne said he'd look at places and keep an open mind, but he didn't have the money to move any time soon.


"Maybe I'll change my mind. Let's go see!" Wayne said, being supportive of his wife-to-be.

KENNY and ARMANDO

Armando really wanted to have a baby with Kenny, and so Kenny said they could seek out some surrogacy specialists in Mexico City. Kenny wanted to know everything there is to learn about it in order to make an informed decision.

"I have been very back and forth in my own mind about wanting a baby," Kenny shared in a confessional.

"Having a baby at 60-years-old is a huge deal. I'll be 66 with the child is in kindergarten, and when the child graduates high school, I'll be 79-years-old, and maybe when the child gets married, I'll be in my eighties! That is mind-boggling to think about."

The couple was told they could choose their egg donor -- from Mexico City, Germany, or the United States -- and then, using the men's sperm, they would create an embryo.


The total package was going to cost the couple $72,000 and take about a year to a year-and-a-half to complete.

Kenny said that if he decided he doesn't want a baby, he was afraid to "crush Armando's dreams."

Armando was "over the moon" to hear how easy the process was going to be, and Kenny said the people were very nice and he liked them a lot.

Armando and Kenny talked about having a baby in a local coffee shop after the meeting. Armando said he was very excited and wanted to go through with it, but Kenny got emotional and called the whole idea "a lot."

Kenny got emotional and admitted that he was thinking he was "too old" to bring a new baby into the world.

"You're thinking you can't or don't want to because of your age?" Armando asked.


"If it's right to do," Kenny confessed in tears.

Kenny worried about what he was going to miss in his child's life as he got older, and he felt a lot of fear and uncertainty. Kenny said he'd feel better about adopting an older child and helping an older child.

Armando became increasingly more frustrated, especially because he knew the adoption process could take years -- potentially about four years.

Armando said he loved Kenny as a dad and as a parent and so he wanted to share that together.

"We can't keep pushing it back. It's time to make a decision," Armando said.

"Well I don't have an answer today, so I'm asking you to respect me on that. This isn't about where we're going to go on vacation," Kenny responded.


Armando couldn't believe Kenny had suggested that he was being disrespectful, and so Armando got up and walked away.

"That is not even the case, and you know that!" Armando said, storming out of the coffee shop.

Armando started to cry outside, and Kenny pointed out how this was going to be the biggest decision to make. Kenny wanted to do what was right for everybody in the long run, but he also didn't want to break his partner's heart.

Armando told the cameras that he felt "misled" because Kenny never flat out said, "No."

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Armando thought he was being very understanding and respectful of Kenny, and he wondered if Kenny was stringing him along.


Kenny said he had been excited and worried, with his feelings up and down, about having a baby. He didn't want to disappoint Armando, but he just asked for more time to think about.

Kenny needed more than one night to sit on the decision, but he told Armando it wouldn't take six months.

JULIO and KIRSTEN

Julio was shown driving Kirsten to the airport so she could return to the Netherlands, and he said her trip to New York didn't go the way he had been hoping it would or wanted it to. Julio acknowledged how they fought a lot during their time together, but he was still happy Kirsten got to see a big part of his life and meet his family.

But things felt off between the couple, and Kirsten called Julio "a jerk." She wished things were like they were before.

Julio still planned to move to the Netherlands, but he had more doubts and questions than ever before.

The pair was going to be apart for three months, but Kirsten said she still loved Julio and had hope for their future together. She intended to fight for her relationship and make it stronger.

KIMBERLY and TJ

Kimberly was shown fighting with TJ's brother, who had called Kimberly "stupid."

Kimberly found TJ's life in India stifling and constricting, and she thought TJ's brother was arrogant and controlling.

"I'm not going to sacrifice every bit of myself just to be with TJ. He needs to compromise in some way," Kimberly explained in a confessional.

Kimberly said she views marriage as a partnership, and she scolded TJ's brother by saying, "If you want me to respect your culture, you better respect mine."

Kimberly insisted that she loved everything about TJ, and so his brother explained how it shouldn't be difficult -- or a big deal -- to make small sacrifices for him such as not cooking with garlic in their home's kitchen.

At one point, TJ's brother put his hand on Kimberly, and she told him not to touch her and respect her boundaries. TJ's brother predicted that Kimberly was going to bring a lot of drama to their lives, and he wished she would change in many ways.


"I don't care about you," TJ said, waving her off.

"I don't care about you either, but I'm going this for TJ. I hate India! I don't want to be here, but I'm here for him!... He is the only reason I have to put up with you, and he's the only reason I have to deal with your parents," Kimberly complained.

And TJ's brother agreed that TJ was the only reason why his entire family was "tolerating" Kimberly like garbage over their heads.

"It takes trash to know trash, don't it?" Kimberly asked.

TJ's brother thought TJ would have to leave Kimberly in order to be happy, and he said Kimberly didn't deserve love and she had abused TJ and his family.

"If you don't respect us, get out of our house," TJ's brother said.


Kimberly said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with TJ but she also needed to have a say in their marriage. Kimberly planned to stand her ground and remain true to herself.

TJ's brother said he would never be in favor of Kimberly and he wanted her to leave them.

Kimberly and TJ's brother then reunited with TJ, who asked his brother to respect Kimberly's emotions. TJ tried to end the disagreement, and he had Kimberly's back in the dispute.

TJ's brother said Kimberly was acting like a god, and TJ said his brother was being disrespectful.

After this conversation, TJ's brother decided that he was no longer going to blame Kimberly -- he was going to blame his sibling.

"For TJ, Kimberly is awesome, but she is not for our family," TJ's brother noted.


TJ struggled to resolve the issue, and then TJ's brother walked away from the conversation.

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