90 Day Fiance: The Other Way featured Sumit Singh getting "cold feet" over filing a marriage application, Kenny Niedermeier's children disappointing him, Ariela Weinberg contemplating a Biniyam Shibre reconciliation, Evelin Villegas doubting the future of her marriage to Corey Rathgeber, and Ellie and Victor fighting over money during Sunday night's Season 3 episode on TLC.
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The third-season of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way stars Victor, a 28-year-old from Providencia, Colombia, and Ellie, a 45-year-old from Seattle, WA; Biniyam, a 31-year-old from Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, and Ariela, a 29-year-old from Princeton, NJ; and Corey, a 34-year-old from Mill A., WA, and Evelin, a 28-year-old from Engabao, Ecuador.
The series also stars Jenny Slatten, a 63-year-old from Palm Springs, CA, and Sumit Singh, a 33-year-old from New Delhi, India; Steven, a 25-year-old from Salt Lake City, UT, and Alina, a 20-year-old from Russia; and Armando Rubio, a 32-year-old from Mexico, and Kenny, a 58-year-old from St. Petersburg, FL.
Below is what was shown on the eleventh episode of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's third season.
JENNY AND SUMIT
Sumit's parents said they were no longer going to object to Jenny and Sumit getting married, and so the couple decided to go forward with their wedding.
Sumit, however, worried the stars were not aligned properly for Jenny and himself, and so the pair met with an astrologer to make sure the timing of their union would be perfect.
The astrologer told the couple to get married whenever they pleased and it would be "no big deal," and Jenny gushed about feeling so relieved to finally have approval from Sumit's parents as well as those associated with Sumit's cultural and spiritual beliefs.
But Sumit thought a wedding would take more time, and he admitted "cold feet" were settling in because he had expected the planning process to take much longer.
The astrologer told Jenny and Sumit to wait at least nine days to get married, and so Jenny wanted to say "I do" to Sumit on the tenth day. Sumit initially agreed but confessed he had gone through a lot in his last divorce and was scared.
Sumit feared Jenny might leave him to return to the United States or end their marriage. He said he was "shivering" and "shaking" over the idea of another divorce, and Jenny said she understood where he was coming from because his previous divorce had been "hell" for him.
Sumit broke down into tears during the conversation and admitted he never wanted to lose Jenny because she's the only person in his life.
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"You couldn't get rid of me if you tried! I love you so much. I love you more than anything. Don't have any doubt in your mind about me... I will love you conditionally forever. I will never stop loving you, and I will never leave you," Jenny shared with Sumit.
Sumit said he did absolutely everything with Jenny -- including shopping and eating -- and so he apparently couldn't picture a day without her.
Jenny thought Sumit's fears and reservations were natural, but all she could do was promise him everything was going to be alright.
Jenny and Sumit, however, were advised by the astrologer to get married in court instead of within a temple.
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Jenny and Sumit then learned Jenny must file an application for marriage registration and provide certain documents and then wait 30 days to be legally married. Jenny worried something may go wrong or Sumit's parents would change their minds in the meantime.
Jenny and Sumit immediately filled out and filed the application, beginning their marriage process, despite Sumit's obvious nerves and anxiety.
Sumit just didn't want Jenny to change after getting married, as his first wife had allegedly became controlling once they tied the knot. Sumit's friend, however, advised Sumit not to compare Jenny to his past -- an alleged "controlling and domineering" woman.
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Sumit then admitted, "I was not ready for the filing. When we were done with the meeting, I called the lawyer and I [asked] him to hold, like, don't file for the marriage," Sumit confessed. "[Jenny] don't know about it."
Sumit figured Jenny would be very mad and hurt upon finding out about what he had done in secret, and Sumit feared he was going to break her trust.
COREY AND EVELIN
Since Evelin had agreed a few weeks prior to move forward with their wedding, Corey and Evelin picked their wedding date and were shown meeting with their wedding planner.
Evelin seemed bitter about having given Corey a second chance, and she was apparently in "a b-tchy mood" after having a bad dream about Corey and Jenny from Peru in which she had slapped both individuals.
Evelin had the tendency of waking up "super mad" at Corey, even though she was trying incredibly hard to forget the past and look forward to the future.
Evelin said her wedding should be officiated by a person with no religious background because in her faith, marriage is until death. Corey told Evelin that's exactly the purpose of tying the knot, but Evelin apparently felt differently about her relationship with Corey after his betrayal.
"It's like you're already thinking about divorce," Corey explained.
It appeared Evelin would want an out from the marriage if Corey hurt her again down the line, but she told Corey there would be no reason to divorce him if he ends up being a good husband.
"I'm not trying to be mean to Corey or try to punish him. I just feel like one of my biggest fears is giving him the opportunity to hurt me again. That's why I warn him that if this time it doesn't work, we're just gonna get a divorce," Evelin shared in a confessional.
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A few weeks before her wedding, Evelin was excited but still hesitant about sharing the rest of her life with Corey.
Corey wanted Evelin to ask her family's pastor to marry them in order to take their marriage very seriously, but Evelin wanted to have divorce be an option.
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Evelin said she just wanted to know "where the exits are," but Corey said it scared him to hear that Evelin was even thinking about exiting the marriage.
Evelin realized she should be nicer to Corey because her stress about marriage and divorce was having a negative impact on him. Evelin then suggested that instead of having a pastor, she'd like her sister Lesley to marry them.
"She's the last person on earth that makes sense... because she doesn't want us to be together," Corey argued with his bride-to-be.
Evelin insisted Lesly would be their best option and she would like her husband and sister to get along better. Evelin pointed out how Lesly was aware of the highs and lows she and Corey had been through as a couple, but Corey said he didn't want to be disrespected or for his wedding to be a joke.
KENNY AND ARMANDO
Armando was relieved was his father had decided to attend his wedding, but she worried he was only making an appearance to due to pressure from Armando's mother. Armando didn't want Armando Sr. to feel "forced" into being a part of his big day.
Once Armando's family arrived, Armando said it felt great to hug his father and see him with a smile on his face. He was excited to be with his family for his entire wedding weekend.
Armando wished his father could talk to him more openly and express how he was feeling, and he learned from his mother and sister how Armando Sr. had made a "last minute decision" about the wedding.
Armando's mother tried to tell her husband that he cared too much about other people's opinions and needed to focus on the importance of his relationship with his only son. The situation was clearly hard for Armando Sr., and Armando was worried about his father watching him kiss and dance with Kenny at the wedding.
Kenny's children and grandchild Cooper then traveled to Mexico for the wedding, and Kenny gushed about how wonderful it was going to be to have his family meet Armando's family for the first time.
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Kenny hadn't seen all of his children in a year-and-a-half, so he was just ecstatic about their arrival, including Kenny's son Bricen. Kenny's daughter Cassidy was also noticeably pregnant, which showed Kenny how much time he had missed with her.
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"We're really starting to feel like a blended family. Armando and I have been talking about growing our family more, but I haven't found the right time to talk to my kids about it yet... I just want to tell them altogether and face to face," Kenny explained.
Kenny wanted to fulfill his younger husband's dreams and wishes, and so he hoped to have his children's support about growing his already-large family even more.
Kenny later talked to his children about adopting Hannah and potentially adopting another child in an orphanage since Armando is only 32 years old. Kenny acknowledged it wouldn't be an easy road and there were some unknowns about the future.
Kenny shared how Armando had also brought up surrogacy and in vitro fertilization, which shocked Kenny's daughter. Kenny's kids didn't like the idea of Kenny having four children in the United States and a whole other family in Mexico.
Kenny's adult kids were afraid their father would ignore them and their grandchildren and essentially forget about them. Kenny's kids didn't want to have to travel to Mexico every time they wanted to see him.
Kenny's daughter Taylor called the whole situation "crazy," and Kenny discovered his children would probably resent him a little bit in the case.
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Kenny admitted he was disappointed in his children's reactions and assumed he would've received a little more support. However, he promised his kids that he would never leave them behind and forget about them.
Kenny told the cameras it was "really hard" to prioritize and put his soon-to-be husband first over his children, especially since Kenny's kids have always been his priority.
ARIELA AND BINIYAM
After a big fight with Biniyam, Ariela said she wasn't sure there was any hope for the future of her relationship with him.
Ariela admitted she was tired, and so she left her mother Janice to sit down with Biniyam for a chat with a language translator in Kenya. Biniyam wished Ariela would give him the benefit of the doubt, and he hoped Janice would understand his point of view.
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Biniyam explained he had turned his house into "a studio" to work on music, which resulted in eyewitnesses speculating and causing problems. Ariela had lost trust in Biniyam and wondered if he had found another woman he liked more.
"When Ari was gone, did you cheat on Ari?" Janice asked.
Biniyam smiled, hesitated and responded, "No... Absolutely it's not like that."
Janice believed that Biniyam was telling the truth -- based on his response and body language -- and so she apparently felt happy and relieved.
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Biniyam said he had lied to Ariela about a lot of things and went to clubs when she wasn't around just to avoid confrontations and possible arguments, but he said he regretted not being honest with Ariela all the time.
Lying to Ariela about small things apparently made her suspicious of Biniyam, which then upset Biniyam. Janice assured Biniyam that Ariela loved him and had cried every day for about two months over Biniyam's behavior.
Biniyam promised Janice that he loved Ariela and was "trying" to make things right.
"I really love Ari, from the bottom of my heart," Biniyam insisted. "I will go to great lengths to try and fix this."
Ariela was optimistic she and Biniyam may be able to repair their relationship and fix things after Janice had questioned Biniyam and pressed him for an explanation.
Janice advised her daughter to set boundaries for Biniyam and discuss her expectations and exactly what she'd want for her relationship going forward. Janice also told Biniyam to always tell the truth and "face the music right away" in order to build trust.
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ELLIE AND VICTOR
Ellie and Victor were still working on their house on Providencia Island in Colombia after the hurricane, and the couple was feeling a bit more positive after having an argument.
Victor brought Ellie to his sister's house to show her the wreckage and where he had sought shelter during the storm when he had texted Ellie, asking her to pray for him.
The ceiling and roof had been ripped off the house, and Victor showed Ellie how his loved ones had squeezed into their sink cabinets, where they waited and prayed for survival for six hours.
Ellie couldn't believe what she was seeing, and she said she wasn't sure how to help somebody who went through such a traumatizing and frightening experience. Ellie told Victor, "I'm sorry," and hugged him closer that day, and Victor felt mixed emotions about what he had gone through.
Ellie determined she must have more patience and be on Victor's side. She decided to stop taking Victor's alleged mood swings personally since he had faced so much adversity within just a couple of weeks of their reunion.
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Victor later revealed to the cameras that he was "waiting on the right moment" to propose marriage to Ellie. But first, he asked Ellie if she'd be ready to have a child with him.
"You know that I would try, but I don't know if I'm able to get pregnant," Ellie said. "I feel like we have been trying."
"We're going to start tonight, last night and every night," Victor joked.
Ellie revealed how Victor would like to have "a ton" of children but she didn't want to get her hopes up since her probability decreases as she ages.
Victor suggested they should build another room in their house, but Ellie told Victor that babies cost a lot of money and they had to think about expanding their family from a financial perspective as well.
The couple had planned to open a bar in Providencia and live a chill life, but the hurricane had changed all that since tourists weren't visiting the island due to the hurricane.
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Ellie called Victor "stubborn," but Victor told Ellie, "I think you have a money problem. All you think about is money and how something is too expensive... or how much something is going to cost."
Victor argued that money isn't everything and he could make his own money by playing music. Ellie said she had given Victor quite a lot of money, but Victor pointed out how he didn't even own a bike.
Victor walked away from the conversation, and Ellie was clearly angry and frustrated.
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