'90 Day Fiance' recap: Lily's miserable, Corona and Ingi split, Sarper's exposed, and Meitalia's unhappy

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's Tell All featured Lily rating her marriage to Josh a "three," Sarper being exposed, Corona announcing her split from Ingi, and Meitalia admitting she's unhappy in the United States during the broadcast that aired Monday night on TLC.


The four new couples who starred on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way were Josh from South Carolina and Lily from China, James from Maine and Meitalia from Indonesia, Corona from Pennsylvania and Ingi from Iceland, and Joanne from New York and Sean from Ireland.

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The two returning couples were Shekinah from California and Sarper from Turkey as well as Statler from Texas and Dempsey from England.

Shekinah and Sarper were last seen on Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, and 90 Day Fiance viewers last saw Statler and Dempsey on Season 6 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.


90 Day Fiance: The Other Way followed six couples who fell in love with partners from foreign lands deciding to move abroad to live with them.

The season featured Americans moving to China, Iceland, Ireland, Turkey, Indonesia, and England.

90 Day Fiance's Tell All was hosted by Shaun Robinson, who revealed that Statler and Dempsey were not going to participate at all because they had broken up.

Lily and Ingi both joined the Tell All via Zoom from their respective native countries.

Below is what happened on the Tell All Part 1 for 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's sixth season.

CORONA and INGI

Corona revealed she and Ingi were "definitely no longer together." She called him a "jackass" and said he had "fumbled the bag -- big time."

Corona shared, "He will regret that for the rest of his f-cking life... He lied about loving me. He just walked away. I had a lot of love to give, but he was completely phony. I feel like such a f-cking idiot."

Sean looked forward to calling Ingi out for leading Corona on because he could tell that Corona was really hurting.

But Sarper appeared to place the place on Corona for being "noisy" and "reactive."

Ingi shared how she was "back in school" and that Ingi meant "nothing" to her. Corona said she had "no idea" who that man was anymore.


Sean called Ingi "a piece of sh-t," and he added, "You're lucky you're not sitting here in person! You are a scumbag!"

"You really are!" Corona added.

Ingi insisted that he never fooled Corona and that he truly loved her, but Corona accused him of lying with "a smug smile" on his face.

But Sarper called Ingi and supported him. Sarper told Ingi to speak his truth, and he suggested that he pitied Ingi because Corona was the coronavirus in which she was small but "deadly."

On the Tell All, Ingi claimed that when Corona traveled to Iceland, she was very different from the fun and charming woman he had fallen in love with. Ingi claimed that Corona wasn't interested in couple's therapy and he could no longer see a future with him.


Ingi said, at one point, he was planning to move to the United States. But after his second trip to the U.S., he left and broke up with Corona.

"It was one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do in my life," Ingi said, breaking down into tears.

Corona called Ingi a "weak bitch," and Sean added how it was definitely "a bitch move."

JOSH and LILY

Josh was back home in the United States for "family events" but he was missing Lily in China.

Josh claimed Lily had the tendency to be defensive when asked questions, and so he worried how she was going to handle the Tell-All.


Josh revealed that, overall, he and Lily had a "very rough" relationship.

Josh rated his marriage a "six" out of 10 because he said they had issues but were slowly improving their communication.

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And then Lily rated their marriage a "three" because she said they argued constantly and her husband blamed her for their issues.

"We don't hug, and we don't have sex," Lily announced. "I used to be a very confident person, but I've completely lost my confidence because of my husband."

Lily said she wanted to make love every day but Josh never wanted to. Lily said they had only made love four or five times total and that it had been about four months since their last sexual encounter.


Lily's words made Josh cry, and he acknowledged how it bothered him that Lily wasn't happy and it was hard for him to hear that.

When asked how she felt seeing Josh so emotional, she replied, "I don't feel anything."

Sarper advised Josh to sleep with his wife and please her because intimacy in a relationship is so important.

Josh said he and Lily were very in love with each other but they weren't expressing it.

James didn't think Lily loved Josh, but Shekinah pointed it out how Lily was "still there" and "sticking it out," which showed love from her end.

Sarper and Shekinah also believed that gender roles in Josh and Lily's marriage were opposite because Lily made the money and supported them. Shekinah therefore advised Josh to make the moves on Lily and initiative physical affection.


Lily agreed that women in China are shy about initiating sex and so she wanted her husband to come onto her.

"When I'm being put down every day and belittled, I just don't have that desire to make love," Josh explained.

Corona joked that Lily and Josh should just have hateful sex.

SHEKINAH and SARPER

Sarper revealed Shekinah's engagement ring cost $3,500, which apparently disappointed Shekinah because she had thought it was worth more like $20,000.

The couple was also shown eating sticks of butter as part of their new "carnivore diet."

Sarper had moved to the United States on a K-1 visa, and so his 90 days to marry Shekinah had started and the clock was ticking.


Sarper had asked Shekinah to marry him and they had an engagement ceremony in Turkey because he had been hoping Shekinah would stay in Turkey with him.

"I had no idea he had that motive [for proposing to me]. I thought he just loved me. But it didn't work for him clearly; here he is in the U.S.," Shekinah admitted.

Sarper explained how it was "really difficult" for Shekinah to adapt to Turkey and he worried that she'd be unhappy with him.

Shekinah shared how Sarper speaks English but she can't speak Turkish. In addition, Shekinah missed her daughter in the U.S. and never planned on being that far away from her.

Sarper, however, said he didn't consider himself an American yet.

Shaun asked Sarper if he still would've proposed marriage to Shekinah had he known he'd end up in the United States anyway, and Sarper gave a long pause. Shekinah therefore asked her fiance to not answer the question because she didn't need it.


Sarper said they were talking about a signature, which didn't really matter, and that he and Shekinah simply needed to be together in the same country in order to make their relationship work.

Sarper suggested that Shekinah would give him a really hard time if they had to date long distance.

"She is jealous, possessive and territorial. She's always asking what I am doing," Sarper alleged.

"That's normal!" Shekinah insisted.

Sarper added how Shekinah was the sun and she always wanted him to be floating around her in her orbit.

Sarper also insisted he'd never cheat on Shekinah and that he'd leave her before ever going behind her back.


Sarper said Shekinah didn't want him to talk to any women, but he said he understood that because he has the "worst resume" when it comes to his dating history. Sarper had slept with 2,500 women.

One of those one-night stands, an American girl and therapist named DeeDee, joined the chat via Zoom and claimed she and Sarper had met three years prior and they were friends.

"Sarper doesn't have any friends that are females. So you're not friends, honey," Shekinah said.

DeeDee said she and Sarper had gotten together during the coronavirus pandemic and they stayed in touch until November 2023.

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DeeDee confirmed that Sarper had told her that he had a girlfriend at the time, and DeeDee expressed how she wanted to meet and hang out with Shekinah.


"Yeah, I'll pass on that thanks," Shekinah noted, adding how Sarper had rejected the idea of the women meeting because Shekinah is "unpredictable" and "possessive."

As a therapist, DeeDee shared how Sarper would probably never cheat on Shekinah and that he'd be honest and loyal, but Shekinah thought it was ridiculous that DeeDee thought she knew her "man" that well.

DeeDee called Shekinah's behavior in the relationship "toxic" and "unhealthy," but Shekinah didn't care what this woman had to say.

"We talked about meeting up several other times... but we didn't," DeeDee said.

Shekinah left the stage and told producers that she wasn't going to participate in the Tell All as long as DeeDee was going to stay on the screen. Shekinah was "so upset" to hear about how Sarper had been texting her as recently as November.

Sarper claimed he had three conversations with DeeDee, but then she showed the receipts. DeeDee flashed her text conversation with Sarper on her phone, and there were a lot of texts, including what appeared to be pictures of Sarper.


Sarper said he simply didn't remember any of those chats, but DeeDee pointed out how they had at least eight conversations.

Shekinah became increasingly more angry because she was "tired of dealing" with Sarper's past, and she also wanted him to step up and be a man.

Shekinah was waiting for Sarper to fix the situation and comfort her, but instead, he let her vent her frustrations alone in a dressing room.

After Meitalia and Corona rushed to see if Shekinah was okay, Sarper finally found his fiancee and told her that she looked beautiful.

Sarper told Shekinah that he was doing his best and sometimes he didn't understand why she was mad at him.

"I am so tired of living moments like this over and over. It's creating small fractures in our relationship that's going to end up as a break," Shekinah told Sarper about his past.


"If you're going to look at yourself like a prize, then you need to act like one."

As Shekinah attempted to scold Sarper, he made her laugh and their argument quickly subsided.

"He needs to show me, in these 90 days, that he can be the man I need him to be. And if he can't catch on, then we can't walk down the aisle," Shekinah concluded.

SEAN and JOANNE

Sean was visiting the United States but he wasn't able to live in the country permanently yet.

Sean joked multiple times about how he couldn't keep his hands off his wife and he was very sexually attracted to her.

Sean and Joanne never talked about how many people they had slept with in the past with each other, and they both announced how they didn't care and didn't need to know.

MEITALIA and JAMES

Meitalia had joined James in the United States about four months prior to the Tell All.

Meitalia said she had agreed to move to the U.S. once James promised her that her sister Anggelisa could visit occasionally.

James claimed Anggelisa caused issues for his marriage, but Meitalia explained how she needed to talk to someone in her own language who knows her.

Meitalia said James and Anggelisa never really solved their problems and James was stubborn, which she acknowledged was a big problem.

Shekinah and Sean thought that Meitalia and James needed to cut Anggelisa off because she was back doing the same thing, but that made Meitalia cry again.

Sarper shared how Meitalia was "so cute" but cried too much, and Shekinah agreed. Meitalia shared how she was trying to work on being so emotional because she was well aware that she cried too much.


Part of the reason Anggelisa was so upset with James was because he had never asked for her permission to marry Meitalia, which is apparently a tradition between sisters in Indonesia.

Anggelisa admitted she didn't like James because he made a lot of promises that he couldn't keep. James, however, had already started the visa so Anggelisa could visit them.

"It's going to be a war zone in your home," Corona warned James.

Sean and Shekinah told James to cancel the visa, even though it's already been paid for, because such a "negative" person around Meitalia and James would be like "a cancer" in their marriage.

Meitalia told Shaun that she was happy with James and loved him dearly, although she's not happy living in Maine. Meitalia shared how she was missing her family, and she doesn't want to live in the United States long-term.

The idea of Meitalia not be happy made James cry because he said he was just trying to do the right thing.


On the topic of having children, James said he doesn't want to have a kid because the world changed after COVID-19 into a place where people didn't know how to interact with each other anymore and stopped being genuine.

"If he doesn't want to have a kid, I will still [be] with him because I married him. Am I going to be hurt? Of course, because I want to have a kid and I want to be a mom so badly," Meitalia cried.

Meitalia was holding on to hope that maybe James would change his mind one day because she had married him for all the good and bad parts of him.

James also revealed that he and Meitalia had a dry spell before in terms of having sex when he wasn't able to make money and provide for his wife. James related to Josh because he couldn't support his family and so he temporarily lost his drive to have sex.

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