'90 Day Fiance' spoilers: Are Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi still together? Did the '90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' couple split up?

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days couple Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi's relationship could fall apart if they can't have a baby together, so did they break up or are they still together? 


[90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days Spoilers Warning: Please stop reading if you do not want to learn if Angela and Michael split up or are still together after filming Season 3 of the 90 Day Fiance spinoff].

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Angela and Michael, whose formal name is Kehinde Ilesanmi, initially starred on Season 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days before appearing on the currently-airing third season on TLC.

Angela was a 52-year-old nursing assistant for hospice from Hazlehurst, GA, when she met Michael, a 30-year-old from Nigeria, for the first time online.


Angela -- a divorced grandmother of six children -- never thought she'd walk down the aisle again, but then she came across Michael on Facebook.

The pair talked on the phone for several months until Angela decided to travel to Nigeria in order to meet Michael in person.

Despite having received warnings from friends that Michael might be scamming her, Angela intended to propose marriage right away.

But once the pair got to know each other better in Nigeria, Angela discovered some red flags, including the fact Michael had admitted to receiving oral sex from a woman at a club.

Angela therefore postponed her marriage proposal.


Michael's motives for dating Angela also weren't clear since he wants to move to the United States badly and even idolizes President Donald Trump. Michael would love to become a wealthy, successful businessman in America.

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But that didn't even seem to be the couple's biggest problem considering they frequently fought when together.

Angela, however, said she and Michael made up after every argument and truly fell in love with each other. Angela insisted Michael had her heart and he made her feel appreciated and wanted.

She was therefore determined to go ahead with the process of bringing Michael over to the United States.


Meanwhile, Michael said he was looking forward to bettering himself so he could become the man Angela wanted him to be.

But 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' second season ended with Angela accusing Michael of wiping out her bank account and telling him to "go to hell." (Angela later said the incident was actually due to a bank ATM error).

After that, Angela broke up with Michael during the filming 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' Season 2 Tell-All special after hearing he had called her his "elder."

At the time, Angela insisted that she was "done" with Michael repeatedly, but that didn't turn out to be the case.

In September 2018, Michael reportedly told a fan who commented on his Facebook page that he was "engaged" and expecting to move to the U.S. in 2019 under "God's grace" before changing his privacy settings to restrict public viewing of his posts.


Then, days after 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' Season 2 Tell-All special aired on TLC in October 2018, Angela changed her relationship status to "Engaged" on Facebook.

In November of that year, Angela confirmed she and Michael were still an item during an interview with In Touch Weekly.

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"I'm in love with him. I don't just love him. I can move on, but why? We've come this far," Angela told the magazine at the time.

"Me and Michael have been together before any of this and we're going to make it. It's just going to be hard. I miss him extremely and I want to be with him."


During the new season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Angela discussed how her relationship with Michael had evolved since their last appearance on the franchise.

"Michael and I have been engaged for about a year now. Truth of the matter is we have some issues still, but I love him and I miss him, so I filed for the K-1 visa. And when he gets here, we'll get married. I love him that much," Angela told the cameras.

Angela, however, planned to return to Nigeria one last time while waiting for Michael's visa to be approved.

Angela said Michael had to prove he'd do whatever it takes to make her happy, especially since she had asked him to stop using social media and he continued anyway and posted photos "showboating" with other women.

Angela only spent two weeks with Michael their first time together, but she was already planning for their wedding day in the United States -- the venue and all. 

Angela checked out a venue called Cotton Patch, which featured a pond, gardens and fountains. She hoped to have an American ceremony followed by an African-style reception, complete with fireworks and televisions to show her guests their journey to love.


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Angela was quoted $45,000 for the venue and all of her special touches, so she needed to make sure Michael was The One for her once and for all before blowing a bunch of money.

Angela later told her daughter Skyla she loved Michael but wasn't sure she could trust him. Angela vented about Michael's behavior on social media but then revealed he wants a baby and she probably couldn't have one given her age. 

Angela asked Skyla to give her an egg so she could have a baby with Michael, but Skyla was totally against the idea because the child would technically be hers.

Angela therefore asked Skyla if she would consider carrying her baby as a surrogate, but Skyla called that idea "crazy" as well and said her mom wasn't thinking things through.

However, Skyla told Angela she "might" carry the baby once she and Michael settle into their life together and really commit to one another.


Angela later learned the paperwork for Michael's visa was being processed in California and would take five to eight months to clear. She was warned by her lawyer to take this very seriously because Michael coming to the U.S. would be a life-altering decision.

Angela was also warned by her lawyer Michael's entry into America would cost her thousands of more dollars and she'd be held financially responsible for him even if their relationship doesn't work out.

Angela said she loved Michael but they needed to build trust in their relationship in order for her to feel ready for all of this.

Michael, for instance, apparently lied to Angela about going out on his birthday.

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Michael told Angela he'd stay home and talk to her on his birthday, but he apparently didn't answer his phone over a six-hour period. Angela said Michael, once again, failed to deliver on his promises.


"He tells me what I want to hear and then he does what he wants," Angela vented to the cameras.

Michael explained he had his phone on him but was in a noisy place and so he couldn't answer the phone.

Angela was stressed out because she was working hard to bring Michael over to America, double shifts and whatnot at her job, and he couldn't even step outside to briefly take her call and touch base.

Angela considered canceling her trip to Nigeria as a result. Angela was angry not because Michael went out on his birthday but because he had lied to her again.

Angela didn't think Michael cared for or respected her, and she said she wasn't going to bring him to America if he was going to continue to lie to her. But Michael told Angela that he'd make it up to her and he loved and missed her.

Angela said her next trip to Nigeria was going to "make or break" her relationship because she didn't deserve to be treated like this.


Angela then traveled to Nigeria to finally reunite with Michael.

"I miss him... [but] I gotta make sure he is the right one, so we really need this time together to make sure we're doing the right thing... We've got to work things out."

Angela believed Michael "constantly lied" to her and so they had to work out their issues before he moves to the United States. Angela insisted, however, Michael wasn't a bad guy and she was really excited to see her "baby."

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Based on what Michael shared with viewers, he had changed for Angela. His friends made fun of Michael for being whipped and not hanging out with them much anymore.

"[Angela] say now I'm engaged so I can't be doing such things like that," Michael said in a confessional.


Michael's friends poked fun at Angela's age and said Michael had changed ever since meeting the "bossy" American woman. They also called Angela "a sugar mama" since she had asked Michael to stop working and often sent him money to take care of things.

Michael's friends were surprised Michael allowed Angela to be the head of household, but Michael suggested that was only temporary.

"Of course I do miss working and going out, but I'm worried Angela will get mad at me. Like when I went out on my birthday, she was super pissed at me," Michael told the cameras.

Michael's friends wanted to see Angela, but he felt nervous about such a meeting because Angela allegedly didn't like them. Michael's intention for the trip was to win Angela's trust back, and so he didn't want any new issues to arise.

When Michael met Angela at the airport, they embraced and kissed. But Michael knew a lot was on the line because if Angela couldn't grow to trust him, his chances of moving to the United States would be slim to none.

Michael gushed about how happy he was to see Angela because he had missed her "so, so much."


Once the pair returned to Michael's place, Angela gave Michael some gifts including Donald Trump boxers. He was excited because Angela was in a good mood and wanted to be lovey dovey.

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Angela said Michael was "all about this white chocolate" and had become more comfortable with his sexuality. She planned to make love to him and enjoy their first night together.

When Angela woke up the next morning, she was so happy and gushed about being "in love" with Michael. She said their first night together in one year was amazing, but she was still mad about Michael going out with friends for his birthday.

The couple then drove for an hour to the beach, but Angela was aggravated because Michael was joking around and didn't seem to appreciate how much she had done to travel to be with him. Angela didn't think Michael cared or was taking their relationship seriously.

Michael had been hoping for a smooth first day in Nigeria together filled with love and laughter, but Angela was picking a fight and bringing up the past.


On their way to a boat cruise, Angela asked Michael if he had been on one before, and he said "yes," when he was younger with his uncle.

Angela, however, called Michael out for lying because she had seen a photo of him on a boat near the same boat dock with women on the boat.

Angela accused Michael of being a liar and said she wanted to go back home. She told Michael to get his own hotel room for the night because she was "done" with him. Michael told Angela that she was assuming things and he was telling her the truth.

"I've had it! I'm sick of his lying and his bullsh-t. I don't want to see him again. He's not sleeping in the room with me. I don't know where he's going, and I don't give a f-ck. I am done with Michael for good," Angela told the cameras.

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Angela called Michael "a damn liar," and decided to go back to her hotel room instead of spending the day with her man.


Michael followed Angela to the hotel lobby, where she was having a drink, but she told him to get away and swore at him. Angela called him a "b-tch" and threatened to punch him right in the mouth unless he left her alone.

Michael, however, refused to leave the hotel because he really wanted to work things out. Angela was clearly upset, but Michael figured a little time would allow Angela to cool down.

"How much respect to I get from this man whom I give everything I got extra?" Angela vented in a confessional, adding she didn't want to bring a man home who made her mad all the time.

"I gave him warnings after warnings, and I don't have to put up with no sh-t like that. Me and Michael are done."

Angela was hurt and couldn't believe Michael loved her when he acted this way. She therefore "hit the streets" alone, and Michael had apparently slept in the car since Angela had thrown his belongings into the hallway at their hotel.

When Angela walked outside, Michael was there waiting for her. But when he went to get the car for them, she ran off into the busy streets and into a salon where she got her hair braided.


Angela vented to the hairstylists how Michael had been dishonest with her, but she had already applied for the K-1 visa. Angela wasn't sure whether Michael was using her for a Green Card.

Michael brought Angela a cake to try to apologize and make things up to her -- because that had worked for Michael in the past when they fought -- but she threw the cake in his face.

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Michael didn't think he deserved that, regardless of what he had done, and he felt really embarrassed. Michael was really starting to think things were done between them.

After spending three days in Nigeria and traveling 7,000 miles, Angela couldn't believe her relationship had fallen apart because Michael chose to lie about something "as stupid as" being at a boat dock before.

Angela was "sick of" Michael making mistakes. Angela wasn't ready to forgive Michael yet, but she said they needed to talk.


Michael was relieved Angela wanted to meet up with him, but he wasn't happy with her either since she had thrown a cake in his face and made him sleep in his car one night.

Angela apologized for the cake incident and said people who love each other don't treat each other this way. Angela acknowledged their relationship was "caustic" and lacked trust, and she wondered deep down whether Michael really was using her to come to the United States.

Michael apologized for breaking Angela's trust, but he promised to be honest with her going forward. Michael wanted to make things up to Angela, but she had apparently heard that many times before.

Angela asked Michael flat out whether he was using her for "a visa," and he replied, "Hell no. Hell no."

Michael told Angela that he wanted to change and would stop his bad behavior, but Angela said she'd absolutely be done if he messed up again.

The pair therefore kissed and made up, but Angela was clearly still uneasy about the situation.


After the pair started getting along again, they made a trip to see Michael's mother. Angela told Michael's mother that she'd try every way possible to give Michael a child.

Michael wanted to carry on his family name, so he hoped Angela's daughter would be willing to carry their baby.

Michael's mother said if the medical procedure didn't work, Angela would have to release him and allow Michael to have a baby with another woman. But Angela insisted, "That's not happening!"

"I don't believe in that... No. Absolutely not... Who does that?!" Angela vented.

Michael's mother wasn't happy to hear Angela wouldn't do everything in her power to give Michael a baby, so tension was high and Michael was stuck in the middle of the two women in his life.

Angela loved Michael's mother's honesty, but she worried about the possibility Michael might run off and have a baby with another woman. Michael explained that's part of Nigerian culture and it's "a regular thing."


Michael said polygamy is acceptable in his home country, so Angela feared Michael would come to the United States and leave her if she couldn't have a baby with him.

"I'm not going to do it, but if you want me to do it..." Michael began.

"If I let you," Angela corrected him. "If I said it was okay, you would have sex with another woman to impregnate her to have another baby. I am f-cking shocked you would say that," Angela told him.

Angela wanted to hear Michael say that he would never do that to her. Angela wished Michael wanted her baby, not just any woman's baby so he could carry on the family name.

Angela said Michael would have plenty of time to welcome a child once she's "dead and gone" because she would never agree to or allow Michael to impregnate another woman.

"I would be lying if I tell her I can be happy without a child," Michael admitted, adding that he promised Angela to be honest going forward and so he needed to do that.


Michael therefore let Angela know she wouldn't be enough without a baby, and so she yelled at him, saying he should have found a younger woman to date. But Michael insisted he wasn't going to leave Angela and they could explore their options at the fertility clinic.

"I'm not saying I'm going to leave you, baby. I'll still be with you," Michael noted.

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Angela, however, wondered whether Michael was just lying to her again, and so she had a lot to think about.

Angela was prepared to try to have a baby with Michael, so they went to a fertility clinic together. Angela felt a lot of pressure, knowing how difficult -- or maybe even "impossible" -- it would be to have a baby.

Angela feared Michael would use the excuse of a baby as a reason to not marry her and back out of their relationship.


In the latest episode, Angela revealed at the clinic she had stopped having her period seven months ago, and so she was told she may not be ovulating or fertile anymore. Angela was advised that chances of fertility drop 90 percent after age 40.

Angela then had a transvaginal scan to test her ovaries, because Michael needed to find out what their chances were of having a baby together. Angela admitted she must be "crazy" to do this "sh-t" for a man.

No fibroids or abnormalities were found in Angela's uterus, and she was told things were looking "beautiful." Angela had no eggs or visible follicles in her right ovary, but there was one egg in her left ovary.

However, a doctor may not be able to make use of Angela's one egg due to her age. Other options therefore needed to be discussed, and Angela wondered if her daughter would give her one egg.

Did Angela and Michael break up, or is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together?

As recently as October 1, Michael posted a photo of Angela, himself and his friend Kyle.

And in June 2019, Michael posted several photos of the couple together on his Instagram account -- including a selfie.


"Never o! Never to be caught unfresh . That's how star do.... #babakeke #90dayfiancebeforethe90days #Karl #Rihanna #beforethe90days #90dayfiancetea #michael #bbnaija #michaelilesanmi #90daysfiance #star #skibi," he captioned the image.

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In May 2019, Angela confirmed the couple was still together, engaged, and would be returning for Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

Angela was in New York City for an appearance at the time, and she spilled the beans to a fan who approached her for a photo about how she and Michael were still planning to tie the knot.

"We are getting married! We're filming Before the 90 Days right now! He's coming here [to the United States]," Angela told the fan, according to In Touch.

When asked if Michael "learned how to act right" in recent months, Angela reportedly said all good things about him.


"Yes girl, just gotta feed him some chicken and behind closed doors, he ain't back talking," Angela reportedly told her fan. 

One month earlier, Michael took to Instagram and shared a photo of the couple from when they were filming the 90 Day Fiance spinoff.

"Forever and a day more," Michael wrote with a heart at the time, showing they were still together at the time.

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