90 Day Fiance has shown Bilal Hazziez and Shaeeda disagreeing on a prenuptial agreement on Season 9, so did the couple split over their differences or follow through with getting married -- and do 90 Day Fiance spoilers reveal that the couple is still together now?
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[90 Day Fiance Spoiler Warning: This report contains spoilers on Bilal and Shaeeda's relationship and if the 90 Day Fiance couple broke up or are still together.]
Bilal, a 42-year-old real estate investor from Kansas City, MO, and Shaeeda, a 37-year-old yoga instructor from Trinidad and Tobago, met online.
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The couple had mutual friends on social media and so Shaeeda slid into his DMs and expressed interest, and Bilal thought she seemed beautiful and ambitious.
After communicating for some time, Bilal flew to the Caribbean to meet his love interest in person. After spending only a week together in person, Bilal proposed marriage and then they applied for the K-1 visa so they could start their life together in America as soon as possible.
A couple of months later, however, the coronavirus pandemic hit, and so Shaeeda and Bilal weren't able to see each other for a whopping two years.
The time then finally came when Bilal and Shaeeda could reunite. It apparently took Bilal seven years to find love again because he's "very picky," according to his ex.
"Under the eyes of God, we are married, and so she can live at my home," Bilal said, explaining how he and Shaeeda had a spiritual union but not a legal one.
Shaeeda married Bilal, spiritually, without ever seeing his nice home, car and savings. Bilal wanted to make sure that Shaeeda loved him for who he is, not his money or belongings.
Shaeeda had told Bilal that she's "a ride or die" and would be willing to "live under a tent" as long as they're together, and so Bilal out that to the test by tricking Shaeeda into thinking he lived in his humble childhood home.
Once Shaeeda found out the truth, she told Bilal that he had "lost some points" with her, but Shaeeda's reaction of disapproval and disgust also upset Bilal, who began questioning her character and values.
Bilal lamented, "If the wedding was tomorrow, I don't know what I'd do. I'd be praying all night, trying to figure it out."
Shaeeda apologized the next day, but she just wanted to make sure that Bilal could provide for her since she wouldn't be able to work in the U.S. for quite some time. Bilal assured her that he could.
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Once Shaeeda saw Bilal's real home, she was thrilled and relieved. Bilal even surprised her with her own yoga studio in the house.
Shaeeda then met Bilal's children, Zaynah, 16, and Yusuf, 13.
Shaeeda was a little quiet and shy at first, but the kids thought Shaeeda was cool. However, the kids didn't want to call her "Umi" -- which she had requested -- because it means "mother."
Shaeeda looked forward to being a stepmom, but she also wants children of her own and needed to be convinced that Bilal was on the same page.
"If Bilal tells me he doesn't want kids, it will break my heart. And I'm pretty sure it will be a dealbreaker for our relationship. There's no relationship after that," Shaeeda lamented.
In the first few days of living with Bilal, Shaeeda accused him of being too uptight, saying he needed to loosen up a bit.
Shaeeda felt Bilal often lectured her, and she wanted him to respect her feelings and speak to her like a fiancee or a wife -- and not a child.
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"You don't hit people! Where do you come from? Is that what y'all do in Trinidad?" Bilal asked. "You lose a lot of point. I'm thinking you're a violent person, and that's not what I'm trying to be with."
Bilal felt "disrespected" and "really irritated," and he wondered if he really knew Shaeeda after all. Meanwhile, Shaeeda felt she didn't have a voice in the relationship and was not understood.
"Right now, we are not ready to walk down that aisle," Bilal confessed.
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Bilal proceeded to romance Shaeeda, but he feared having children with another woman and then getting divorced again. Bilal therefore didn't want to put any unnecessary stress on their relationship by talking about kids too early.
Bilal also wanted Shaeeda to be active in the community and be a little tidier when taking care of their household, such as putting silverware in a drawer in their correct place. Shaeeda, however, thought Bilal was "OCD" and acting like a king.
One month into Shaeeda's move to America, she wanted to talk about wedding planning. Shaeeda thought Bilal was avoiding important conversations, and the pair continued to bicker over silly things.
Bilal said he and Shaeeda argued more than he had ever argued with someone in his life.
Shaeeda explained to the cameras that every time she brought up a problem to Bilal, he would deflect and put the problem back on her. They were butting heads and unable to find a solution and communicate effectively.
"This is not how I see myself dealing with a disagreement with my future spouse," Shaeeda noted.
With 60 days left to wed, Shaeeda went shopping for a wedding dress, and she reiterated how she wasn't going to waste her time with a man who didn't want more children.
Bilal then brought Shaeeda to a Ferris wheel in Atlanta so she could see the city from high above. Shaeeda was a little scared, especially because there was glass underneath their feet.
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Shaeeda was in "complete shock" over the idea because she had informed Bilal that a prenup is not for her.
She didn't even know that Bilal was still thinking about a prenuptial agreement, nevermind the fact Bilal had already spoken with a lawyer and had him draft a copy.
Bilal realized this was the wrong time to bring it up, and Shaeeda was upset they couldn't have a love story without a prenuptial agreement between them.
"Marriage is compromising, but also, marriage is a business," Bilal told Shaeeda. "Everything that I'm doing is completely okay."
"No," Shaeeda disagreed. "I can see there's no backing down from this prenuptial agreement."
Shaeeda didn't think Bilal trusted her, and she didn't like her marriage feeling like a transaction. She hoped to build a marriage that would survive under all circumstances.
Shaeeda later asked to look at the contract again, and she noticed how there was no mention of their future children. Shaeeda said it looked like Bilal was protecting himself and his assets, and she didn't feel like Bilal trusted her and would always take care of her.
Shaeeda felt like she was being punished for what Bilal had gone through in the past, and she told Bilal that she didn't think a prenuptial agreement was necessary for them.
Bilal wondered what was going on and why Shaeeda would want to take everything that he has. Bilal said if Shaeeda didn't sign the contract, he couldn't see them getting to the finish line.
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"Do you want to take everything that I have?" Bilal asks Shaeeda in the clip.
Shaeeda is then shown crying and calling a family member, threatening to hop on a plane and head home.
So did Bilal and Shaeeda split up or get married -- and if the 90 Day Fiance couple tied the knot, are they still together now?
Shaeeda and Bilal still follow each other and like each other's posts on Instagram, suggesting the reality TV stars are still an item.
Bilal pinned a photo with Shaeeda on his Instagram account, and he posted a video of them together on May 31.
While the video was a throwback to their time in Trinidad and Tobago together, he wrote, "Just two imperfect people learning to know one another and enjoying the differences. A tale of two souls…no filters…no edits…no photoshop…just real life! Perception is reality. #muslimcouple #usa #love."
And Shaeeda uploaded a video May 19 on her Instagram Stories of Bilal and herself in the car.
Shaeeda also posted a photo of herself sitting in front of a pile of gifts May 2 on Instagram, and she wrote in the caption how Bilal "made up for" his "ridiculous prank."
Bilal and Shaeeda also conducted an interview with Entertainment Tonight in early May, and Shaeeda insisted her relationship with Bilal is "real."
"With Bilal, there [were] a lot of things I was not prepared for," Shaeeda noted.
"I just want fans to know this is a real relationship... You're going to see moments when we argue or we disagree or we're in love."
Shaeeda said she and Bilal are both Muslim individuals but they still have "problems like everyone else."
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In fact, Bilal and Shaeeda "still have arguments" based on Bilal's prank in which he made Shaeeda think he drives a white work van and lives in a small "dilapidated" home with peeling paint, broken windows and a torn ceiling.
"We haven't got past this test. It still comes up; he still talks about it and says how much I hurt his feelings," Shaeeda disclosed. "And I try to express my point of view, so he tested me on something that really could have, you know... it's just too heavy."
But if they're "still" fighting, then they're "still" an item!
Bilal also gushed about his feelings for Shaeeda in the interview and why she's wife material.
"I just feel like she had the essence of things that I was looking for, great motherly qualities for my children and any future children to come," Bilal gushed.
On why he fell for her, he added of Shaeeda, "She was ambitious, she wears her faith on her sleeve, she's very God conscious, so a lot of different qualities I was looking for she possessed."
And in late April 2022, Shaeeda hinted she is still living in the United States, which would mean she and Bilal got married within the 90-day requirement of her K-1 visa -- or else she'd have to return to the Caribbean.
"I will never forget this precious moment. I cried so much watching this. Almost two years apart, the K1 Visa process was a nightmare," Shaeeda captioned a video of her arrival into the United States and reunion with Bilal in the airport.
"Now I'm finally here in America! All I want to do is hold onto you forever. God is great. After hardship comes ease. Hopefully smooth sailing after this #90dayfiance #girl #girls #shaeeda #bilal #bilalandshaeeda #trinidadandtobago #usa #america #beautiful #couplegoals #muslimcouple #muslim."
Shaeeda also wrote in the comments of her post that she's "adjusting to new life in the USA."
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Back in January and February, Shaeeda posted multiple videos of herself doing some yoga poses in the snow. Considering it doesn't snow in Trinidad and Tobago, it appears she is still living in Kansas City with Bilal.
And in December 2021, Shaeeda praised her "patient photographer" who always does "an amazing job" when filming her. Shaeeda added a red-heart emoji to her post, so her photographer may be Bilal.
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