90 Day Fiance couple Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks' relationship has appeared to be on shaky ground on Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, so what happened between this couple? Did they break up or are they still together?
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[90 Day Fiance Spoilers: This report contains spoilers revealing if Darcey and Tom are still together and will spoil their storyline on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days].
Tom, a 39-year-old from Nottingham, United Kingdom, and Darcey, a 45-year-old from Middletown, CT, appeared on Episode 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' new season, which premiered February 23 on TLC.RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY KNOW? (PHOTOS)
Darcey -- who first starred on Seasons 1 and 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days with her now-ex Jesse Meester -- was shown traveling to England and falling in love with Tom on last year's third edition of Before the 90 Days.
When Darcey first met Tom in person and hoped for love at first sight, she quickly came to realize they weren't on the same page.
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Darcey said they had been dating and getting to know each other for several years already, so she was smitten with Tom and hoped for a marriage proposal by the end of her stay.
But in Tom's mind, they were just meeting in-person and needed to take things slow.
"I'm not really at the stage of thinking where I'm going to settle down, get married, have kids, and move to her country or have her move here," Tom told his sister Emma last season.
"I'm at the point where I'm meeting someone I've been really good friends with and I'm going to see where it goes."
Tom acknowledged Darcey lived in "a bit of a fantasy" when it came to romance and was "a little difficult to deal with." He was guarded and had walls up because he had been hurt in the past.
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As the season progressed, Tom found himself wanting a serious relationship with Darcey, who was willing to give the businessman her whole heart. Tom came to believe Darcey was a good woman with the best of intentions.
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So while enjoying their last dinner together in England at the end of Darcey's stay, Tom told the mother of two, "Here's to loving and to knowing what love is -- and knowing that when you have it, you should hold on to it."
"I do love you," Tom told Darcey. "I've always loved you. I'm actually in love with you, very much so."
"I love you," Darcey replied.
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Tom then gave Darcey a key to his house so she could visit any time she'd like. She was disappointed it wasn't an engagement ring, but Darcey was so head over heels she didn't care.
When it became time for the pair to say goodbye at the airport, Tom told Darcey after hugging and kissing her, "It's not goodbye; it's see you soon... I do see a future with us together."
But the season finale of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' third season showed Tom breaking up with Darcey just a few weeks after she returned to America from her trip to England.
"I saw myself marrying Tom one day. Dated Jesse for two years and then it faded, and here we go again," Darcey said in a confessional during the episode.
"I'm just going to keep going on with my life, and if someone else comes along that feels right, I'm going to move on with my life."
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Heading into the Tell-All special, however, Tom said his relationship with Darcey was "complicated" because he loved her very much. He therefore wanted to see if being a couple long-term was a real possibility.
Darcey and Tom therefore planned to spend a full day together after filming the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' third season, which aired on TLC in October 2019.
Darcey and Tom made an appearance in the second episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' fourth season.
Darcey said she finally felt "true love" with Tom, which is why "it hurt so much" when they "drifted apart" following her return to the United States.
Darcey wondered if she had been too needy and pointed out how Tom never even called her or sent a card or gift on her birthday, which was one week prior to when this scene filmed.
Darcey felt "sad and unloved" on her birthday, and she cried to the cameras because Tom had allegedly said he was going to call.
Darcey said Tom later texted her, apologizing and asking to videochat so he could tell her something. Darcey's twin sister Stacey Silva felt Darcey deserved better and should move on, and Darcey also acknowledged she deserved to be loved passionately and respected.
"I will give him a shot, but that's it. This is the last shot! Otherwise, it's done," Darcey told Stacey. "I don't want to feel used, manipulated or played for a fool."
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Darcey complained Tom was hot and cold about their relationship, and although she wasn't sure what Tom wanted, they were still a couple in her mind.
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When the pair finally reconnected through videochat, Tom shared that he was going to be in New Jersey to meet with a wine distributor but he'd also be stopping in New York for a couple of days.
Tom asked Darcey if she'd like to meet him, but Darcey asked what his intentions were. Tom said he wanted to talk about their feelings for each other face-to-face over dinner.
Darcey felt things were a little off, and she had once traveled to New York only for Jesse to break up with her in person.
Darcey didn't want history to repeat itself and said, "If you're coming here to break up, then just do it over the phone."
Tom said he wanted to spend some time with a woman whom he had shared "a romantic notion" with. Darcey said Tom's actions spoke louder than his words, and so she copped an attitude over the phone once Tom tried to end the conversation prematurely.
Darcey admitted she wasn't sure whether she wanted to meet Tom in New York because she didn't want to be a pawn. Darcey wasn't convinced Tom had good intentions, and she didn't know what to believe.
"I don't want any bad blood. I just don't know what I'm going to do," she told the cameras.
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In a preview for an upcoming episode of Season 4, Darcey is shown saying, "I don't trust Tom. I feel like he is hiding something."
And based on Tom's public social-media activity late last year, he was apparently feeling a similar way about Darcey.
So what happened with Darcey and Tom? Did the 90 Day Fiance couple split or are they still together?
Tom and Darcey's flame fizzled out not long after they reunited in New York City for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' third-season Tell All.Tom was spotted with a Darcey look-alike in September 2019, and one month later, Darcey confirmed in an Instagram posting she was single and looking for a new man.
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"Single and ready to mingle! Done with the past," wrote Darcey.
A couple of weeks later, Darcey also announced she was planning to move from Connecticut to Los Angeles, CA.
"Excited for what the future holds! I'm ready for a sexy and manly Aussie! Let's go down under! Will always keep my heart open to life and real love!" she wrote on Instagram at the time.
Darcey subsequently deleted her post, but it was captured by 90 Day Fiance Instagrammer John Yates prior to its deletion.
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According to an In Touch Weekly source, Darcey will move to Los Angeles with her Stacey as well as her two teenage daughters, Aniko and Aspen, this summer.
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"Darcey and Stacey are indeed moving to Los Angeles and Darcey's bringing the girls," the source said.
"She will set things up and make sure everything's ready while her daughters finish out their school year in Connecticut until summer when they'll all make the official move on the West Coast."
In November 2019, Tom revealed on social media he had apologized to Jesse, who claimed the two men had "both been manipulated" by Darcey.
Tom and Jesse even met up in New York City a few days later and were spotted having coffee at a restaurant together.
Tom then briefly debuted his alleged new girlfriend, an American woman named Amanda McAdams, on Instagram in January and suggested he was moving to New York City with her.
"Beauty is fleeting, but a rent-controlled apartment overlooking the park is forever," Tom captioned a photo he later deleted showing Amanda straddling his waist on New York's Central Park bridge.
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"Want to move in together?"
Tom also added the following hashtags to his post: "#sexandthecitystyle #nyc #newyork #newyorkcity #brooklyn #manhattan #ny #fashion #love #hiphop #queens #music #art #bronx #photography #usa #miami #instagood #travel #photooftheday #la #instagram #artist #style #rap #losangeles #repost #london #like #follow. "
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Tom was quoting Sex and the City character Carrie Bradshaw in the posting.
Given the trees in the background of the romantic photo feature colorful leaves, it appears this photo was taken in Fall 2019.
Jesse also commented on Tom's post before it was deleted.
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"See you soon new neighbour! Beautiful pic. Love to you both," Jesse wrote, along with heart and praying-hands emojis.
Tom and Amanda, who is reportedly an event planner and executive assistant in New York City, began dating in November 2019, according to Soap Dirt.
Tom reportedly celebrated the Christmas holiday last year in Amanda's hometown of Pittsburgh, PA with her parents Nancy McAdams and Robert McAdams even though the couple had only been dating a couple of months.
Given Tom and Darcey openly broke up last fall, Amanda -- who allegedly dated a British man before -- would be able to give Tom another chance at a K-1 visa to move to the United States, as well as possibly continue starring on TLC.
According to a source close to her family, Amanda, a 35-year-old tattooed blonde who currently lives in Long Island, NY, would jump at the chance to star on a reality show with Tom if he ended up on an additional season of a 90 Day Fiance spinoff.
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"[Amanda] wouldn't hesitate to accept if offered a role," the source told Soap Dirt, adding that Tom's new love wants "notoriety of any kind."
In a February interview with Us Weekly, Darcey all but confirmed she's no longer with Tom by slamming him multiple times.
Darcey, for instance, said Tom's new friendship with her ex, Jesse, was "a slap in the face" and a "kick in the ass."
"But that's their style and they're going to do what they want to do anyway," Darcey said.
"I think people can see through that... What was the reason for it? [Tom] knew exactly how I got treated and he thought that I was very much disrespected by Jesse, and for them to kind of band [together] -- I felt ganged up on."
Darcey vented about how she had done nothing other than give her heart to the two men.
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"I feel like I got stomped on, and then for them to do that for the media or the press or whatever they were trying to do, it was just a low blow," Darcey told Us, adding the guys must have had an agenda when they agreed to meet up and become friends.
"I don't like to give it attention because it just fuels their fire and it's not worth it for me."
Darcey griped about how she was "tired" of guys treating her badly and didn't understand why there was so much "animosity" and "hate" against her.
"I wish them well, but I cut the cord," she said of seemingly both Tom and Jesse.
"I really did, and I just want to move on from it. I know what I deserve, and I do deserve better. For me, it's about self-love... and feeling empowered. When I least expect it, that's when it's going to happen... I don't like bad blood."
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