'90 Day Fiance' Spoilers: Are Emily and Kobe still together and married? Did the '90 Day Fiance' couple split up? (SPOILERS)

90 Day Fiance's ninth season has shown Emily Bieberly and Kobe Blaise disagreeing on gender roles and where they should settle down with two kids, so did Emily and Kobe go through with getting married or did they split up? What do 90 Day Fiance spoilers reveal about Kobe and Emily's relationship now?

[90 Day Fiance Spoilers: This report contains spoilers on Emily and Kobe's relationship and if the 90 Day Fiance couple got married or split up -- and if they are still together now].

Kobe from Cameroon, Africa and Emily from Salina, Kansas, met in Xi'an, China during a fun night out, which ended with the couple conceiving a baby.

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Emily gave birth to her first child, a boy named Koban, in July 2019 while she was still living in China, and then she had to return to the U.S. alone.

Once the coronavirus pandemic hit in early 2020, Kobe's K-1 visa was postponed two years, and so he had to miss the first two years of his beloved son's life.


However 90 Day Fiance's ninth season showed Kobe moving to the United States and finally reuniting with his family.

Emily knew Kobe and Koban would develop a connection and good relationship in time, but she worried about co-parenting with him since she had never seen him act like a father or be hands-on with a baby before.

And Kobe wasn't onboard with some of Emily's parenting choices. He didn't approve of her breastfeeding out in the open and also criticized how Emily was still breastfeeding her son nearly two years into his life.

But that was only the beginning of the couple's problems.

Kobe got angry when Emily forced him to sleep in another bedroom as to not disrupt Koban's sleeping schedule, and Emily didn't appreciate her fiance trying to tell her what to do.


"Emily feels she already has a plan for everything and I'm just going to fill the space, but I'm not that kind of a person. I set my own rules and I live by those rules as a man," Kobe explained in a confessional.

Kobe also didn't take well to farm life and Emily bossing him around.

When Kobe helped Emily's parents shovel horse manure, he vented to the cameras, "I miss life back home. And sometimes, part of me feels like Emily doesn't care about the sacrifices I made by leaving my home in Africa to be here, and it's really weighing down on me."

Kobe even swore at Emily during a fight, which she insisted she'd never put up with again.

Emily found the bickering "exhausting" and worried her chemistry with Kobe wasn't going to be enough to make their relationship work long-term. While Emily called Kobe rude, he thought she was too controlling.


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In addition, Emily wanted a big wedding and a sizable diamond ring to go with it. Kobe, however, only had $4,000 in savings, and he was still trying to convince Emily's parents that he could take care of her and Koban.

"I don't feel like I'm high maintenance. I just like what I like and I don't want anything less than that," Emily said in a confessional.

In attempt to make Emily happy, Kobe bought Emily a nice ring and proposed during a romantic dinner out at a restaurant.

"Will you marry me?" Kobe asked.


"It's so pretty!" Emily gushed. "Of course [I will marry you]! I am so happy! I want to go home and f-ck, I love it!"

Once the pair returned home, Emily confessed to Kobe how she had purchased an engagement ring for herself and intended to return it. Kobe refused to look at the ring and felt like Emily never had faith in him to do things right.

Kobe began developing trust issues as a result, thinking Emily didn't take his words seriously or was trying to undermine him. Kobe said he felt hurt and "so insulted."

With 23 days left to wed on the K-1 visa, Emily revealed to Kobe that her period was late and so they should take an at-home pregnancy test. Emily hadn't been taking birth control, and the pair had been practicing the pull-out method.

Emily and Kobe apparently had unprotected sex one day, but she didn't want to be pregnant again. Emily just thought it was bad timing, especially because she had promised her parents she wouldn't get pregnant again before getting married and settling down.


When Emily and Kobe left the convenient store bathroom, Kobe said, "Oh my goodness," and Emily said, "Oh my God."

Emily had taken two pregnancy tests, and they both came back with a positive result.

Emily and Kobe were therefore expecting another baby together, and the pair agreed this wasn't the right time to bring another baby into the world.

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Emily told Kobe that they shouldn't share the news with her parents until after the wedding, when her belly would be showing.

Kobe didn't seem happy about the pregnancy, and Emily was disappointed her husband wasn't more excited.


Kobe's friend Temperature then traveled from Ohio to see Kobe. The men were like brothers.

Kobe told Temperature that Emily was wife material but had a "nasty attitude" and always tried to control things.

Temperature thought it was "madness" that a woman was trying to run his household, and then Kobe told Temperate about the pregnancy, even though Emily had asked him not to tell anybody about the baby.

Temperature let it be known that the man should be the boss in any relationship, and then Kobe announced how the man should always be on top -- even though the woman also has a role to play.

Temperature suggested the couple should move to Columbus because there were many Cameroonians living there, but Emily immediately shot down the idea and said "no."

Emily then got upset when she discovered Kobe had told Temperature about his baby on the way. She couldn't even imagine marrying Kobe in light of the fact he had betrayed her trust.


With only two days left to wed, Emily was worried Kobe wasn't happy in Kansas and so that's something they needed to talk about.

Suddenly, Emily saw on the screen of Kobe's iPad that there were one-bedroom apartments available in Ohio. She immediately got angry and flustered, and she knew it wouldn't make sense for them to live with one bedroom considering they were going to have two kids together.

Emily asked why he was searching for that, and Kobe explained Temperature had sent him a link and he was just innocently checking it out.

Emily said she wouldn't be comfortable moving away from her family since they'd be having another baby, and Emily put her foot down and said they weren't going to move to Ohio.

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Emily believed Temperature wanted Kobe to move there -- without his family -- but Kobe insisted to Emily that he'd never leave her behind and she was making "a big deal out of nothing."


Kobe, however, said he was wondering if he'd be able to better provide for his family in Ohio.

"I feel like I am sacrificing a lot because I have to let go of every decision and everything that I want... for Emily. It's really hard for me. This relationship will never work for me if I'm the only one making compromises," Kobe told the cameras.

Emily really wanted to believe that Kobe was committed to her and their family, but she was afraid of how he viewed gender roles.

She said these weren't the type of conversations they should be having two days before getting married.

So did Kobe and Emily break up or get married, and is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together now?

Kobe posted a photo of Emily and their son Koban in late April, and he captioned it with three red hearts and wrote, "My [heart] beats."

Emily appeared to be wearing a wedding ring in the photo, suggesting the pair got married once Kobe moved to the United States.


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In the comments, the pair also wrote "love you" to each other.

In early May, Kobe uploaded a selfie with Emily and captioned it, "Somewhere safe."

A fan asked Kobe if he and Emily were still together, and he wrote, "We were meant for each other forever."

A few days later, Kobe gushed about Emily in a touching Instagram post for Mother's Day.

"Happy Mother's Day to all the beautiful moms out there who've been through a lot just to put a smile on a child's face. I wish my mom was still Alive so I could tell her how much I love her but still I got this wonderful woman who has made my life more meaningful," Kobe gushed.


"Babe, you are an example of what a good mom is all about, I love you and I really appreciate all you've been through in raising Koban in my absence. Happy Mother's Day once again."

Emily replied to the post, "I love you," along with a red heart. "Thanks, baby."

And then Kobe responded to her comment, "Love you."

However, by June, Kobe sparked breakup speculation by posting cryptic TikTok videos on Instagram about people needing to know their "worth" and "value."

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"Know your worth and never feel bad to break a relationship or leave a place where you're not appreciated," Kobe captioned a video of himself telling fans to never let anybody make you feel less than.


"Some people are in your life for a reason while others are there for a season and most of the times those seasonal people in your life will make you feel like you can't survive without them. Remember God does not only bless people financially, taking someone out of your can also be a blessing. We move."

And on June 13, Kobe wrote on Instagram about how people need to love themselves and give themselves some credit when credit is due.

"Forget about our worries. It's another opportunity to reshape your life. It's a blessing... Do you know that you are important? Do you know that your dreams count? Your vision matters. Most of the time, we fail to acknowledge ourselves... You are important. Always start with yourself," Kobe said in a video.

However, Emily gushed about Kobe as a father on June 19.

"Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there. Especially to these two men who are true examples of what a father should be... loving, caring, supportive, encouraging and overall good humans. We are all so incredibly blessed to have you," she captioned a video of clips featuring Kobe as well as her own father.

According to 90 Day Fiance Instagrammer, @FraudedMedia, Emily's second pregnancy resulted in her giving birth to a baby girl.


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Emily, Kobe, and their infant daughter were spotted at the Tell-All taping in New York City in June 2022.

The @Fraudedmedia Instagram account posted a video at the time claiming Emily did not "hit it and quit it" with Kobe.

"Emily in fact got pregnant, again," the Instagram account wrote. "They had a baby girl. She was at the Tell All. She could be about 3-4 months [old]."

The account also obtained photos from the Tell-All taping in New York City.

An anonymous source taken or obtained photos showing Emily and Kobe with a little girl, as they appeared to walk on a New York City sidewalk with Kara Bass and Guillermo Rojer.


Emily then posted a video of Koban and many sonogram images of Baby No. 2 on July 11 and wrote, "Secret's out! Our family is growing and we are all so excited."

In late July, Emily posted a video of Kobe dancing, followed by footage of her son shaking his hips.

"Moves like daddy," Emily captioned the video.

Emily also shares some of Kobe's motivational speeches and advice on her Instagram Stories, showing that they support each other.

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