90 Day Fiance couple Lisa and Usman are already having problems in their relationship shortly after meeting on Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, so did the couple make it or break up? Did they ever get married and are they still together?
|
ADVERTISEMENT
|
[90 Day Fiance Spoilers Warning: This report contains spoilers that reveal if Lisa and Usman are still together and if the 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days couple married].
Lisa, a 52-year-old hospice caregiver from York, PA, and Usman "SojaBoy," a 30-year-old rapper from Nigeria, currently star on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' fourth season, which premiered in February on TLC.RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY KNOW? (PHOTOS)
Lisa, who previously divorced an unfaithful and verbally-abusive man, said leaving the marriage was the best thing for her and her 15-year-old daughter, whom Lisa said she worked hard to support financially.
Lisa said Usman, an entertainer in Nigeria who has over 20,000 followers on Instagram, had contacted her on Facebook two years prior to when filming started and they videochatted immediately so Usman could prove he wasn't a catfish.
Lisa didn't understand why a Nigerian celebrity would be interested in her, but a love song he had allegedly written for Lisa confirmed his feelings for her, at least in Lisa's mind.
It didn't take long for Lisa to fall for Usman, and so she planned a trip to Nigeria so she could meet him in person. Not only was it going to mark her first time to Nigeria, but the trip was going to be her first time out of the United States.
Lisa said their relationship was built on trust but she had an issue with the "thirsty" women who followed him on social media.
Lisa didn't like women constantly reaching out to and calling Usman. She therefore asked him to tighten up his social-media profiles after seeing some flirty comments had been left by fans, such as heart emojis.
"I just have to try to tolerate her," Usman said in a confessional, before telling his pals he had already decided to be with Lisa forever and always.
Lisa and Usman were already engaged, so they planned to wed during her stay in Nigeria and then apply for a spousal visa so Usman could move to the United States.
RELATED LINK: 'MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO BROKE UP? WHERE ARE THEY NOW? (PHOTOS)
Lisa was warned Usman would tell her anything she wanted to hear in order to come to America and receive a Green Card. After all, Usman admitted to cameras his dream was to become the king of hip-hop and R&B in America.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOWBut Lisa believed otherwise and thought this was her opportunity to experience a love like never before.
"If my life is one week [or] one month with this man, I've lived a full life," Lisa told her friends before she left America.
Lisa's friends were worried about her safety in Nigeria and being kidnapped or something along those lines.
But Lisa gushed, "If I die in Nigeria, I'll die a happy woman because I'll be with the man I love... He's absolutely the man of my dreams. If this is a scam, it's going to break my heart and I will not recover from it."
Lisa and Usman then finally met in a Nigerian airport, and Lisa was introduced to Usman's two roommates. Usman's friends were shocked he was dating such an older woman.
Usman told the cameras he was "in heaven" and in "paradise" holding his love, and Lisa expressed how Usman was even more handsome in person. She called him "so damn hot."
But Usman admitted Lisa had "a bit more belly" than he was expecting. He said he would've liked her to have a bigger chest with a little waist and big hips, but he said Lisa had a big heart and that's what mattered most.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE: BEFORE THE 90 DAYS' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY NOW? (PHOTOS)
ADVERTISEMENT
Once Lisa and Usman made it to the hotel, Lisa kicked his friends out -- and Usman had no problem with that. The couple got settled into a nice room, and the romance began once she saw Usman had roses for her.
"Are you looking forward to sex with Lisa?" a producer asked Usman.
"Umm, despite the fact she's not the kind of woman I am attracted to, she still has the lady's part and I still have the guy's part, so it's going to be cook -- groovy, cruising. Oh my God!" Usman replied.
When Lisa and Usman woke up next to each other for the first time in Nigeria after "making love," Lisa admitted there was "a big cultural difference" -- "American vs. Nigerian."
Lisa explained she had to teach Usman how to have oral sex because he didn't even know what it was. Meanwhile, Usman said Lisa was "70 percent good" in bed out of the 100 percent he had been expecting, but he noted that was good enough for him.
Lisa confirmed she and Usman had decided against using a condom and it was his first time having unprotected sex. Usman told Lisa he "loved it" without protection.
Usman's friends didn't think Usman would disobey his mother if she didn't like Lisa and demanded they not proceed with a wedding, so Lisa began to worry about whether she'd be able to win her future mother-in-law over.
RELATED LINK: 'DANCING WITH THE STARS' PROS AND THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS: WHO'S DATING OR MARRIED TO WHOM!? (PHOTOS)
Lisa realized Usman had lied to her because he originally insisted his mother's opinion wouldn't affect their relationship going forward. Now that Lisa was in Nigeria, Usman had changed his tune and revealed they absolutely needed his mother's blessing to go through with a wedding.
Lisa acknowledged Usman's mother might stand in their way of a lifetime of happiness.
Before meeting Usman's mom, Usman drove Lisa three hours to Kaduna, a big city in Nigeria, where he actually lived and worked in the music industry.
On the drive over, Lisa didn't appreciate people blowing up Usman's phone all the time, and Usman pointed out she's "very jealous" and "even more controlling in person." Usman claimed he didn't even know who was calling him at one point.
ADVERTISEMENT
Usman spoke to his friends about how he needed to address Lisa's attitude because he didn't want her to do anything that might jeopardize his career or relationship with co-workers.
For instance, Lisa hated that Usman used a young female model in the music video for the song he had written for her, and she didn't like the video director as a result.
However, Usman chose to edit out the model in order to please Lisa, which frustrated the people he had been working with. The video changed so much from the original that the director didn't even want credit for it anymore.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE: HAPPILY EVER AFTER?' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY NOW? (PHOTOS)
"Changing my video could be bad for my career. I wish Lisa could understand what I sacrifice for her," Usman said in a confessional.
Usman then introduced Lisa to his friend Abba, who is also in the entertainment industry in Nigeria. Usman hoped this gathering would help Lisa to understand his career and passion better.
Abba insisted having female fans is good for a singer's career and so Lisa scaring them off wasn't ideal. Abba told Lisa she was causing problems and a singer cannot disappoint his or her fans if he wants to be successful.
"Are you trying to destroy his music career?" Abba asked.
"That is an insult," Lisa replied, before threatening to leave the gathering. "This guy is an idiot."
Abba thought Lisa was being "too jealous" and that Usman deserved more from a life partner.
Usman laughed at what Abba had to say, and so Lisa felt very disrespected by her fiance.
ADVERTISEMENT
"I feel very embarrassed," Usman said.
So did Lisa and Usman work out their issues and are they still together? Did the 90 Day Fiance couple get married?
Based on posts Lisa has made on Facebook, she and Usman reportedly began dating in June 2018.Lisa and Usman are not only still a couple, but they reportedly wed and are now married!
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE: BEFORE THE 90 DAYS' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY NOW? (PHOTOS)
Photos of what appeared to be Lisa and Usman's wedding ceremony leaked online last year by Starcasm, and it appears they tied the knot on August 30, 2019.
One picture appeared to show the couple holding their Nigerian marriage certificate.
Lisa reportedly chose not to wear any makeup on her wedding day at Usman's request, and Lisa changed her name to Usman's mother's name when she got married.
Lisa also reportedly converted to a different religion.
Usman shared a post on Facebook in December 2019 that showed a screenshot of a text message Lisa had sent him in which she talked about converting to Islam, Starcasm reported.
"Wasn't for your mom or anyone in our lives, not even you," Lisa allegedly wrote, "this was a decision that I made for myself."
Lisa reportedly received her fair share of backlash on social media after revealing she's married to Usman, and some people are claiming Usman has cheated on her. But it doesn't seem to phase the feisty Lisa!
ADVERTISEMENT
Lisa then went off at the online troll and, according to Starcasm, wrote, "She is a typical Nigerian b*tch an ppl from my husband area wonder why he married a WHITE AMERICAN WOMAN. FACT STANDS I AM A GOOD WOMAN SO LET MY HATERS COME @USMAN SERIOUSLY ILL F**KING MAKE HER CRY."
The commenter continued to allege Usman had been "f-cking around" on her, advising Lisa to get checked for sexual transmitted diseases.
"Jealous much b*tch? Get in line to kiss my white a**," Lisa reportedly responded.
"You mad bc I married Usman Sojaboy no wonder Nigerian men are choosing to marry anyone but a Nigerian woman like you."
In addition to being a musician, Usman is also reportedly an actor in Nigeria.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY KNOW? (PHOTOS)
Want 90 Day Fiance spoilers? Click here to visit our 90 Day Fiance Spoilers webpage!
About The Author: Elizabeth Kwiatkowski
