90 Day Fiance star Ryan Carr just forgave Stephanie Davison for sleeping with his cousin on Season 8 of the series, but did more problems arise between the couple? Have Stephanie and Ryan split or is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together? What do 90 Day Fiance spoilers reveal?
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[90 Day Fiance Spoiler Warning: This report contains spoilers that reveal if Stephanie and Ryan got married and if the 90 Day Fiance couple is still together.]
Stephanie is a 52-year-old career-focused woman who owns and operates two medical spas from Grand Rapids, MI.RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY NOW? (PHOTOS)
Stephanie was "a lifelong bachelorette" before meeting Ryan, a 27-year-old from Belize, during a vacation to his home country.
"I have never had the dream of the big wedding, the white picket fence, the man who comes in and sweeps me off my feet," Stephanie said. "But then I met the hottest guy I've ever dated -- and the youngest guy I've ever dated."
Stephanie and Ryan dated for three years before Stephanie applied for a K-1 visa and the couple decided to appear on the show.
Stephanie said she had no problem being called a "cougar" because her man has "a phenomenal personality" and is "extremely funny."
"I feel something about Ryan that I haven't felt for others in the past," Stephanie noted.
Once Ryan's K-1 visa was pre-approved, he still had to go through the visa interview process -- but the embassy remained closed due to the coronavirus pandemic.
Stephanie admitted she had trust issues in their long-distance relationship, mainly due to their large age gap, but also because she had caught Ryan texting multiple women as well as an ex-girlfriend in the past.
"When I was there a year-and-a-half ago, I caught him on the phone with three different women," Stephanie said.
"I threw Ryan out that night and I was crying. Right after his cousin Harris called me, and I slept with his cousin. Basically, it was over between Ryan and I. I'm just such an honest person, and I never would have slept with his cousin had I not found all of those texts and everything."
Stephanie had been keeping this secret from Ryan, and she knew it had the potential to tear them apart and ruin their relationship forever.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOWStephanie was especially worried because she had invested so much heart into their relationship, nevermind how she was giving him $500-$1300 a month by paying for Ryan's rent, groceries -- and work wages!
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"I happen to have a friend that owns a resort [in Belize]. So I called and said, 'Everyone is sitting around and no one is working, so give [Ryan] the job and I'll pay his wages,'" Stephanie explained to her cousins.
"He doesn't know that. But better that than I send his family money. This way, he has self-esteem... I love him enough that I'm willing to take this risk, bottom line. It's my choice. This is who I choose... He's the man I want to build a life with."
But then Stephanie couldn't get ahold of her fiance when she wanted to hash out their future plans.
She was afraid of losing their connection and "growing further and further apart."
"I want him to share in my grief right now! I want to see he is as upset as I am... We are hanging on by a thread right now, and that thread is going to f-cking break any single second," Stephanie lamented.
Stephanie said she had called Ryan about 14 times before he finally answered, and Ryan snapped, "Every day you would call me and b-tch about something."
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For Ryan's part, he said he enjoyed making his own money and his excitement about coming to America was waning because Stephanie was "far past crazy" and acting ridiculous.
Stephanie threatened to cancel Ryan's K-1 visa, and he told her to do whatever she wanted because she's "the boss" and called the shots.
"If you have nothing but bad [things to say] after all the good stuff I do for you and your family, then you know what? Why are we engaged? Why are we engaged then?" Stephanie questioned.
"I don't know," Ryan replied.
Stephanie told the cameras if she and Ryan were going to end their relationship, they needed to do it in person.
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The other option was to hang tough and give their romance another chance once Ryan arrived on the K-1 visa for 90 days.
In October 2020, Stephanie said the borders had finally reopened and so she'd be able to visit her boyfriend in Belize.
After 10 months of not seeing each other, Stephanie figured the distance between them had been causing most of their problems.
When packing up her suitcase, Stephanie included about 12 watches -- including a $3,000 snake watch -- for Ryan as well as clothes and shoes. She also decided to take the ring her father had given her mother when they were married.
Stephanie always wanted to wear that specific ring if she were to get married.
"Although Ryan and I are engaged, he hasn't officially proposed yet, so the ideal thing for me is for him to propose with my mother's ring. I have a feeling this might be the time he proposes, on this trip. We shall see!" Stephanie gushed.
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"I love Ryan with all my heart, and I hate the level that we're fighting now because our love will never survive if we can't restore the trust in our relationship," Stephanie explained.
"This will be the trip where we decide, 'Do we move forward or do we end it?' I'm excited but I'm also incredibly nervous. These last 10 months have been the worst of our relationship... I hope we can work out the kinks."
When Stephanie arrived in Belize, she ran up to Ryan and he greeted her with flowers and a balloon. They embraced and kissed multiple times, and Ryan told Stephanie that she looked sexy. As for Stephanie, she appeared overjoyed.
Ryan said he was 23 years old when he met Stephanie and she was either 47 or 48 at the time. Ryan said Stephanie's return to Belize was his "dream come true," and then he drove Stephanie to her hotel, which he called "paradise."
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Once Stephanie returned to Ryan's arms, she felt like maybe they could make things work and love might actually conquer all. All of Stephanie's anger and resentment appeared to disappear in the moment.
Ryan said although Stephanie was older, she could definitely "keep up" with him.
Stephanie explained they needed to make a decision about Ryan's K-1 visa, and Ryan said he wanted to make amends with Stephanie and show her the best two weeks of her life. Ryan told Stephanie that making her happy would be his No. 1 priority.
Ryan told Stephanie that he'd remove the password from his phone so she could check it whenever she wanted in order to make her feel secure and comfortable. Ryan insisted he wanted to get their relationship back on a good path.
"Some days, Stephanie drives me really crazy and you know, like, f-ck, I would probably just want to give up on all this, but I'm hoping she's willing to work with me. Right here, right now, let's make a new beginning, a new chapter, fresh," Ryan said.
"Because I'm actually way too deep in it already and I actually really want to get to America. I want to see what America looks like, you know?"
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Ryan insisted he'd get to the United States eventually and Stephanie should stick with him no matter what.
Stephanie then gave Ryan the ring to propose marriage with if he decided that he was ready to do that and continue with the K-1 visa process. Ryan set out to prove to Stephanie that he was a changed man and wanted what was best for them as a couple.
After the couple didn't sleep together for one night, Stephanie asked Ryan why he didn't make a move on her.
Ryan explained that they were both tired and Stephanie had complained of a stomach ache, but Stephanie still thought it was strange.
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Stephanie confessed she would have liked "a quickie" bang for the purposes of bonding and she hadn't been expecting "a big magic show" or hour-long "session."
"It's always been four times a night, so I feel like there's something else [wrong]," Stephanie said.
Ryan assured Stephanie that everything was fine and there was no problem. He said Stephanie was stuck in her head.
"How many women have you slept with since I've been gone for 10 months?" Stephanie asked.
"None," Ryan replied. "Of course I'm horny as f-ck and I want to have sex, but I was just thinking about your well-being and that's it."
Ryan sensed all Stephanie wanted to do was fight and she had both negative thoughts and trust issues that continued to bother him. Ryan said he had been caught texting women three or four years ago, but Stephanie recalled events differently.
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Stephanie then told the cameras, "We were done. It was the last straw. I had tolerated him and that bullsh-t for too long. So after that... [Ryan's cousin Harris] came that night and we slept together."
Stephanie then confessed to Ryan that she could only handle so much when the pair had fought and Harris comforted her and told her multiple times how beautiful she is.
"He called me every day... Harris is very bold, and you know that," Stephanie said.
"I said, 'I just threw Ryan out. I've had it this time.' And he said, 'Can I come see you?' I was crying so hard. It had been so long since you made me feel special. So I had him come and he spent the night with me that night."
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Stephanie broke down into tears, and Ryan admitted that he had already known about that.
Ryan called Harris an "assh-le" and said someone that worked at his hotel had seen Harris enter Stephanie's room. Ryan called Harris "a backstabber."
Stephanie said that night never would have happened had Ryan been loyal to her, but Ryan said she took things to another level -- which is something he had allegedly never done.
Ryan said he blamed both Stephanie and Harris for the mistake but it happened a long time ago and he had chosen to forgive Stephanie and stay with her.
"I forgive you, but I'll never forgive [Harris]... He is dead to me, and I mean that," Ryan explained.
So did Stephanie and Ryan break up or is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together now?
There is no sign of Ryan on Stephanie's Instagram page, and all signs are pointing to the couple being over and done with.ADVERTISEMENT
If she and Ryan lasted as a couple and remained happy together, one would think Stephanie would be somewhat grateful for the show given it documented the pair's time together.
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Stephanie recently made jaw-dropping allegations about her time filming Season 8, claiming she had been raped and that TLC forced her to film during a bug infestation that put her life in danger.
On January 13, 2021, the Instagram account @Mommy_says_bad_words posted the cover of a book titled Never Get Ghosted Again: 15 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest and How to Avoid Guys Who Can't Commit by Bruce Bryans.
The Instagram account wrote above the image, "If only Stephanie had read this before she met Ryan," and the post was captioned, "She needs this book ASAP."
In the comments section of the post, Stephanie completely unloaded her frustrations and publicly announced she had a terrible 90 Day Fiance experience.
"My new motto after this reality tv stuff.....ONLY believe half of what you see and hear!!" Stephanie wrote.
Stephanie also added the following shocking hashtags to her comment: "#theycangofuckthemselves #paymewhatyouoweme #careaboutyourcast #manipulatedbeyondbelief #seeyouincourt."
Stephanie then expressed pride in her strong hashtags and explained why she's so angry.
"These clusterf-cks that work for this company are going to wish they never deceived me. I not only was raped while filming, but manipulated to keep filming after I begged to get off set after being bitten hundreds of times by sandflies," Stephanie claimed.
"But no, they just needed a romantic dinner filmed with Ryan."
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While Stephanie didn't get into details about the alleged rape incident, she complained about how all of those bug bites were life threatening and TLC allegedly did nothing to help her.
"I spend have my time in a hospital now hooked to IV's for the inflammation from the allergic reactions I had," Stephanie wrote.
"They are unwilling to pay all my medical expenses. My attorney started legal action today...stay tuned!!"
The Instagram account noted Stephanie's medical bills should absolutely be taken care of, at the very least.
"Yes!" Stephanie agreed. "This show has ruined my health, I wish I had never heard of this show."
Several days after Stephanie went on her rant, she posted a photo of herself on Instagram and captioned it, "Be careful what you wish for, cause you just might get it. #happysunday #Instagood #90dayfiance #truthalwayscomesoutintheend."
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way star Laura Jallali -- whose relationship with Aladin Jallali ended in divorce -- commented, "Looking beautiful and yah 100 [percet] you probably don't want what you wish for because you will be disappointed in the end!"
And Stephanie replied, "You and I know first hand, don't we my friend?!!!"
Stephanie is pretty clearly giving away her relationship with Ryan did not work out.
Laura wrote back to Stephanie, "Honey been there, done that, bought the T-shirt and couldn't return it without loosing my dignity."
And then Stephanie responded, "LOVE YOU," along with clapping emojis and crying-laughing emoticons.
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