'90 Day Fiance' spoilers: Is Ed Brown and Rosemarie Vega's romance really over? Has the '90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' couple reconciled?

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days couple Ed Brown and Rosemarie Vega had ended their relationship and didn't appear to be on speaking terms during the Season 4 finale, so are Ed and Rose really done with each other or have they reconciled since filming the show? 

[90 Day Fiance Spoilers Warning: This report contains spoilers that reveal if Ed Brown and Rosemarie Vega reconciled and are still together as well as spoilers from 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' Tell-All reunion].

Ed, a 54-year-old professional photographer from San Diego, CA, thought he had found the love of his life in Rosemarie, a 23-year-old single mom from the Philippines, whom Ed calls Rose.

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Although he's only 4'11," Ed is nicknamed "Big Ed" because of his huge personality. He welcomed a 29-year-old daughter Tiffany from his previous marriage, which didn't work out because he had admittedly cheated on his wife.

And Rose also has a child, a four-year-old son whom Ed began viewing as his own son.


Ed confessed Rose was way out of his league, but she wanted to be his girlfriend and hopefully have more children with him someday. Ed therefore called Rose his "queen" and said he sent her gifts to the Philippines.

Ed's family and friends were "skeptical" and "worried" about his new relationship, and Tiffany was angry her father would be traveling to a dangerous place to date such a young woman.

But Ed considered Rose to be his dream girl, and he wasn't about to give up on love. Ed therefore bought an engagement ring for Rose and flew to the Philippines.

Upon first seeing Rose in person for the first time in Manila, which is three hours from Rose's remote village, Ed thought she was stunning -- but Rose was expecting Ed to be taller and thinner based on what he had said.

Ed and Rose's first day was "a disaster" according to Ed because he wasn't used to the heat and Rose kept taking out his wallet to buy things from local vendors in a Manila marketplace.


Later on, Ed and Rose had a fight when Ed questioned her about her past and ex-boyfriends.

Ed promised to stop asking about her ex-boyfriends, saying he'd never bring them up again if Rose would be up for taking an STD test, but Rose was completely offended and "very hurt" by the request.

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Rose, who revealed Prince's father was a bachelor when they dated and had moved on and started a family with another woman, worried that Ed viewed her an "an easy girl" rather than a beloved girlfriend, and so she was pretty pissed off.

Rose said she had met Prince's father four years prior and had two serious relationships in her past, both of which left her hurt.


"I may have lost Rose and I feel sick to my stomach. I have to fix this. I put way too much into this relationship not to," Ed said in a confessional.

Ed later apologized to Rose and promised to communicate better, and he sparked some romance that night in their hotel by rubbing her feet.

After sleeping in the same bed that night, Rose refused to tell the cameras what happened the next morning; however, Ed shared he and his girlfriend had "made love" and "it was awesome."

The pair then traveled to Rose's home, where she lives with her sister and parents.

Ed was shocked by the conditions and couldn't believe how terrible they were once they finally arrived and Ed met Rose's "adorable" son Prince, who called Ed "Daddy."


Ed said he was "enamored with" the little boy, but the idea of being a father at 54 years old freaked him out a little bit.

Ed also met Rose's parents as well as her sister Maria, but his first night in Rose's village was apparently a nightmare. Ed said the 1,000-threat count sheets he had shipped Rose for her mattress pad never arrived and he was sweating and wet under a leaky roof.

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Ed said his body felt "broken," and it didn't help when he had to bathe the next morning in a bucket -- with Rose's father watching.

"After seeing Rose's village and how she lives, it makes me wonder: Who wouldn't want to come to America for a better life?" Ed asked the cameras.


"I already have questions about money and her sister Maria, who asked me for money. Is that what it's all about for Rose... Am I just her meal ticket and her way out?"

After a short stay, Ed took Rose on a vacation to a nearby island, Palawan, where they could relax on a beach. Ed was still planning to propose marriage but had some lingering doubts about Rose's intentions and their relationship.

The next day, Ed and Rose woke up in a hotel together in Palawan, and Ed surprised his girlfriend with a new bikini as well as pink lingerie known as a teddy. But he also handed her a toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash!

Ed admitted Rose's breath wasn't good, and Rose was embarrassed and claimed she had an ulcer. She wanted to punch him in the face for making her feel so "small."

During a subsequent romantic poolside dinner, Ed brought up his concern about Maria asking him for money before his trip to the Philippines. Ed claimed Maria had asked for his help, and he wanted to know if Rose was aware of that.

Rose's leg appeared to be shaking under the table, but she insisted she had no idea about Maria asking for money from him. Ed therefore chose to believe her.


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Rose thought her relationship with Ed was heading in the right direction, and she was dreaming about welcoming two more children with him.

However, Ed then dropped a bombshell on Rose.

"I've raised a daughter. She's 29 and it was a wonderful experience, but having more kids is not something you want. In fact, before I came to see you in the Philippines, I had scheduled two appointments to have an operation. It's called a vasectomy... It prevents me from getting you pregnant," Ed confessed.

Rose was upset Ed didn't tell her sooner and she said she felt "very, very, very sad." Rose hoped Ed would change his mind, but Ed stood firmly in his decision not to have anymore kids.

Ed promised Rose a great life, although he's not rich, but said he only had enough money for her and for Prince. Ed asked Rose if she still loved him, but she replied, "I need more time to think about this."


When Ed woke up in his hotel the next morning, Rose was nowhere to be found. She had taken off.

When Rose finally showed up, she blasted Ed for not telling her about his vasectomy sooner, and Ed apologized for not being more truthful sooner. Ed explained he had wanted them to get to know each other to find out whether they're compatible before talking about kids.

"I know who you are, I think. You are a person who lied to me about height, right? Then you want to give me an STD test, right? And about mouthwash... I have an ulcer. So I'm disappointed because you always embarrassed me," Rose said.

"And about my sister, I think you think me and my sister are the same and you think that I want your money and not you. You make me feel like a little bit of a person, and I think you not love me. I'm done."

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Ed said he didn't realize Rose was this upset and he was "shocked" and never expected this outcome. Ed acknowledged he had never seen Rose like this before, and he was at a loss for words.


"I came here with love in my heart. I bought a ring. My plan when we left here was to go back to Manila and ask you to marry me. My intentions were real," Ed insisted in tears.

Rose apparently believed Ed's intentions were good, but she said he hurt and lied to her over and over again.

"I can't want to continue this relationship," Rose noted. "This is the last time you give me a hurt, because I am done. Yeah."

Rose told the cameras she wanted to end the relationship and not waste any more of her time on someone who allegedly didn't appreciate her. Rose said she was done forgiving Ed and giving him so many chances, and she noted her family would be disappointed but would understand.

Rose then went to their hotel room and packed her belongings to go home. Rose said Ed didn't take ownership of his mistakes and she had finally seen "the true Ed."

When Ed discovered Rose had left, he broke down into tears and vented, "I failed -- again." Ed had been single for 20 years and said losing something he thought was real was painful.


"I know it's over with Rose, so I need to try to put my life back together," Ed told the cameras.

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Ed was then shown flying back to the United States, where his mother and dog waited for him at the airport. Ed told his mother that his trip was "fun, exciting and crazy," but "Rose is out. No Rose. No Rose."

Ed teared up when revealing the bad news, and his mother promised her son that the pain would pass.

"I had the best chance at love, but I screwed it up. Right now, what I want more than anything, is to pick up my heart and move on. But there's a big part of me that still hopes Rose might talk to me again," Ed told the cameras. 

Ed later met up with Tiffany hoping to mend their relationship, and he admitted to his daughter she had been right all along and his relationship with Rose had blown up in his face.


Ed confessed he had been "selfish" and was very sorry for hurting his daughter.

Ed, however, said he had no regrets about meeting Rose and falling in love. Ed said he just wanted happiness, intimacy and love in his life.

So are Ed and Rose still over or did the 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days couple reconcile?

Ed and Rose's relationship is definitely over and done with, and Rose -- who recently promised on her newly-launched YouTube Channel she will "speak the truth soon" -- has already made it known she's very hurt and angry.

Rose took to her Instagram Live last month and posted a video in which she blasted Ed for being full of lies.

She claimed Ed doesn't love her or care about her and that he just wants to be famous.

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"I want to say, Ed, how dare you embarrass [me] in front of millions of people. Please, people, don't believe him. It's fake. He doesn't really care [about] me. He just [wants] to be famous, that's why he's doing that," Rose said in the video re-posted by 90 Day Fiance Instagrammer John Yates on his own account.

"He did not give me any gifts except bra and panty. Everything out of his mouth are lies. They aren't true. He did not care about me or especially my son [Prince]. You always embarrass me."

Rose seems to be referring to Ed's claims he spent over $5,000 on gifts and shipping to provide her with shoes, pillows, a grill and other items she supposedly never received.

Ed also said on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days he had shipped Rose expensive new bed sheets for the couple to use while he was overseas but they had also never arrived.

Since Ed has not appeared to have said anything negative about Rose in the press in her numerous recent interviews, it appears Rose is slamming Ed for things he has said on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

For instance, Ed questioned whether Rose was using him for money and a way out of the Philippines, and Ed also accused Rose's sister Maria of asking him for money in order to save her shop in the Philippines.


Ed told the cameras Maria had asked him not to tell Rose, but Ed wasn't sure whether Rose was in on it the entire time.

"You're always such a liar," Rose continued in her Instagram video. "People always ask Ed about my sister [asking] Ed for money. No, it's not true! He's a pig... It's not true. He always just lies."

"So please don't believe Ed. Always what he says is not true. He wants to be famous. That's all."

Rose concluded, "He [does] not love me. He [does] not care for me. He always embarrassed me, and I always [was] quiet. But I feel hurt right now. I want to say I feel hurt right now, so [he's] not caring [for] me. It's not true. It's not true. Please, don't believe Ed. It's not always true, what he said."

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Rose has apparently also moved on, as screenshots began circulating online recently of her alleged Facebook page, which shows Rose announcing she's engaged.


In one photo Rose allegedly posted on March 10, she was flashing a silver sparkly ring on her ring finger and leaning in for a kiss on the lips -- with a person who appears to be a woman.

Reports swirled that Rose was engaged to a woman named Ejhay, who is also from the Philippines.

The Instagram account @187anonymousgossip re-posted screenshots of the photos, including one of Rose and her partner smiling together in a selfie, earlier this month.

"I guess everyone was right, Rose is now engaged to a female and Big Ed says hes single," @187anonymousgossip captioned the selfie photo.

Rose, however, allegedly recently denied she's engaged to a woman in an Instagram reply to a follower.

"Is it true that you are [engaged] to a female from your country?" a follower asked Rose, according to a screenshot posted on Reddit.


"The rumor that I'm engaged to a woman is NOT TRUE. #stopthelies," Rose responded.

While the @187anonymousgossip account continues to stand by its original claim with photos retrieved from late February of Rose and her partner taking selfies, it's possible Rose's partner is a man with softer features.

"You cannot tell me this is not Rose.. That IS Rose for everyone who kept saying it wasnt on my previous posts. that's Rose's wall, Rose's son, that's Rose dammit! The date on this is February 22,2020," the Instagram account captioned the slideshow of photos. "#SoMuchDamnConfusion #CantDenyItNow #RoseVega #BigEd."

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In response to the rumors Rose is engaged to a woman, Ed told Entertainment Tonight in mid-April he had "no idea" if it's true and hadn't heard the rumors until ET mentioned them to him.

"You know, half the stuff I read online -- not like half the stuff, more like 90 percent of the stuff I read online -- is not true," Ed said.


"It's people grabbing information, and bits and bits of information, and they're just creating fake news. They don't know what's going on. I know what's going on in my heart."

Ed had previously told ET in a March interview that he and Rose were "in a really good place," but the couple's dynamic has clearly changed drastically since then.

"That's all I can say," he noted at the time, adding that his relationship was "real" and he has "no regrets" from his 90 Day Fiance experience overall.

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days Season 4 Tell-All spoilers

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' Season 4 cast Tell-All reunion had reportedly been set to film at a studio in New York City in March similar to past seasons, but due to the coronavirus pandemic, those plans ended up being postponed.

Instead, the show ended up filming a reunion remotely, with everyone participating via video conference, during the first weekend of May.

In footage of the reunion that leaked out and has surfaced on the Internet, Ed connected with reunion host Shaun Robinson over video conference and discussed what he envisions happening in the future between Rose and himself.


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When Shaun asked if he could see himself becoming friends with Rose, Ed replied, "You know, I want to be her friend. I don't want her to be mad at me, and I take full responsibility for not the things I did, but for the way I did them."

"I just wasn't -- the last thing I did was I tried to tell her, 'Look, your breath really smells. Try the [mouthwash], it makes your mouth smell pretty,'" he added.

"Just the way I did things, my execution wasn't really correct. I wasn't really thinking things through. So she's really mad at me right now. I think she's really mad at me."

Ed, however, claims Rose attempted to reconcile with him in February!

"She did in fact come back to me -- and I have the texts [to prove it] -- she came back to me on February 9 and wanted to get back [together] and I was kind of surprised, like, 'Wow, really?'" Ed said.


"Because when I left the Philippines, I came back to the States and I sent her a text, I go, 'Rose, I just want you to know that I wish you and Prince the best and I'm sorry it didn't work out.' And then she responded back, you know, 'Okay fine.'"

"And that's the last time I spoke to her until I got a text from her a week before Valentine's Day. And so I was like, 'Wow,'" Ed told Shaun.

Shaun then asked Ed what the future holds for him in terms of relationships and romance.

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"I'm going to take a break [from dating]. I think I need to spend -- I know this sounds really weird, but one thing I can say is this: One thing that I learned from Rose is that I'm willing to try love again. I'm willing to get back into the game," Ed explained.

"She have me that. She taught me that. She didn't destroy me. I wasn't destroyed like I was from my first marriage. So, I know my heart could [get broken] again but it's not going to destroy me and I'm not going to disappear. So I'm going to give love a chance, I am certainly am."


Ed also shared he wants to get into good shape physically and probably cut his hair at the request of his mother.

"I'm excited for the future. I'm really excited... I don't regret for one minute what I did," Ed shared. "It was a great learning experience and it was just a great experience, and I'll never -- it has changed my life."

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