90 Day Fiance star Fernanda Flores has finally directly addressed her split from her husband Jonathan Rivera and says she is "done" hoping to "repair the irreparable."
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"He is the one with no intentions of fix[ing] our marriage," Fernanda replied in an Instagram comment to one of her followers on Saturday.
Fernanda wrote her comment in response to a follower that had told her to "go back and fix things with your husband and stop lying to your self."
The 90 Day Fiance Season 6 star later also replied to a supportive commenter who suggested she "forget what everyone else thinks [and] be happy."
"I do every day," she wrote.
But shortly after midnight on Saturday, Fernanda also posted a tweet in which she appeared to say she is now "done" trying to convince Jonathan to give their marriage another chance.
"Estoy cansada de quedarme callada, sumisa, pacÃfica, estupida, esperanzada a reparar lo irreparable. Is he done? Guess what I'm done too," the 90 Day Fiance star wrote on Twitter.
Translated to English, the Spanish portion of her tweet reads, "I'm tired of being quiet, submissive, pacifying, stupid, hopeful to repair the irreparable."
Speculation the 90 Day Fiance couple's relationship was falling apart and they may have split began swirling the weekend before Christmas.
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On December 22, Fernanda posted a heated message on Instagram that seemingly pointed fingers at her husband.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW"He stripped away my self-worth, layer by layer until there was nothing left of my personality. Yet I never forgot about the girl who I used to be. She lived inside, my caged soul, waiting for the day I would set her free. Casting her light into my dark mind, hoping that I would see, flashes of a better life, glimpses of possibility. I was never alone because she believed in me," Fernanda wrote, although the post was deleted shortly afterwards.
The 90 Day Fiance star then shared several more now-deleted cryptic Instagram posts later in December, giving more indication she and Jonathan had called it quits.
"When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you," she shared in one Instagram Stories posting. "The misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth, just like you did."
Fernanda also shared a photo of her wedding day, quoting her groom's vows.
"'I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honour you all the days of my life' -He said," the caption stated.
Jonathan then subsequently confirmed he and Fernanda had split when he posted an Instagram photo showing he was celebrating New Year's Eve with his mother Ceci and concerned fans asked why Fernanda was missing from the celebration.
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Jonathan went on to post over 40 comments about the status of his relationship with Fernanda that night, confirming they had called it quits and claiming to be the one who ultimately decided to pull the plug and break-up.
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Jonathan added at the time, "Eventually she hated where we lived. I tried many time to give her everything she ever wanted but it wasn't enough... She said MANY things you can't take back that I won't mention... She wanted to apologize and asked me to forgive her. I haven't."
Fernanda then told her own Instagram followers that she didn't want to talk about her husband's comments.
"I don't want to talk anything about Jonathan again. Please don't ask questions about him," Fernanda said in an Instagram Live chat with her followers on New Year's Day.
"He's talking a lot; he can say whatever he wants. I'm not going to talk about it until I'm ready. And today and right now is not the moment. So, let's enjoy the rest of this day."
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Jonathan then did an extensive interview with In Touch Weekly about a week ago in which he further elaborated on the couple's split and said he hadn't spoken to Fernanda since before Christmas.
"I haven't spoken to Fernanda since December 22," Jonathan told the magazine. "I have a lot going on and so in the midst of all the craziness, I try to focus on what's important."
Jonathan reportedly said things had transpired between Fernanda and himself in recent weeks but he has chosen to keep those details private out of respect for his estranged wife.
"What happened was things change, things change and people change and I can't help that," Jonathan said.
"I don't know how to help someone from changing who they are or who they were. Also, she's young, 20 years old. You have a tendency to continue to grow, you want different things as time goes on and I can't blame her for that."
Jonathan, who previously revealed Fernanda has been pursuing a modeling career, insisted he has always supported Fernanda's dreams and goals.
Jonathan said he's Fernanda's biggest fan and "she can tell you that."
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