Andi Dorfman admits she doesn't think Juan Pablo Galavis was grateful for his The Bachelor opportunity nor was he really ever looking for a wife.

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"Everything was about his soccer and his traveling and who he knew, and it was just all about him. But there was just a lot of negativity," Andi said of her prior experience with Juan Pablo in the fantasy suite during Monday night's The Bachelor: The Women Tell All special.

"I felt like he was being extremely negative and there were times when I felt I was kind of getting sucked into that negativity. [He was negative about] the whole process. He was being negative and not really grateful for the opportunity that he had. I think he thinks he was a very good Bachelor."

Andi continued, "I don't necessarily think Juan Pablo wasn't here for the right reasons. I think that he was definitely here to find somebody. I think he had that genuine want, [but] I think his version of what he was trying to find was different from ours. In my opinion, I think he was trying to find a girlfriend and someone to date and someone to -- after this is all over -- figure out if it's going to work. And I think we all kind of came here to find a husband."

While Andi previously discussed what went wrong during her overnight date with The Bachelor star, she elaborated on the situation more. For instance, Juan Pablo said something about Andi being in his Top 3 "by default," by only the skin of her teeth. The Bachelor also allegedly discussed his overnight date with Clare Crawley.

"You have to look at it in totality... He made a comment to me about how he already has his overnight date with Clare. Looking at him when he was talking, I remember thinking to myself, 'This will never work.' I remember just being mentally done at that point," Andi explained to host Chris Harrison.

"To say that to a woman who has really put herself out there -- not quite a turn-on. It's offensive but it's also really hurtful. You don't want to think about the fact that someone else just had an overnight date, and for him to bring that up, I was just so shocked and appalled by it."

Andi apparently regretted not telling Juan Pablo she found that conversation about Clare's overnight date offensive.

"That's something that I definitely regret. I should have. I kind of just swept it under the rug. I remember being ready to go to sleep and just kind of closing my eyes and waiting to wake up and be done. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do," Andi said.

"You've got to understand though, he's not -- the things he said were entirely inappropriate and rude, but he wasn't mean to me. And I think that should be made very clear. He was never mean to me [but] the things he said made me feel cheap. I think sometimes he just doesn't think about it. It's not that the intent is there, it's just that there's no filter there and you say whatever's on your mind."

Andi said Juan Pablo didn't realize his "honesty" was just being rude.

"You can't just say what you want to say without someone having their feelings hurt. I'm all for honesty and saying your true feelings and stuff like that... but in no way was [Clare's overnight] funny to me. It was mean and it was hurtful towards me," Andi explained, adding that Juan Pablo would just stare at her blankly when she spoke as if he didn't care or wasn't comprehending a word.

"Everything was under the disguise of honesty and that really frustrated me at that point."

Also during Monday night's special, Andi and Chris seemed to hint at the fact Andi will become ABC's next The Bachelorette star. Andi noted she's "good" now and "definitely still looking for someone."  She admitted she felt butterflies for Juan Pablo and was charmed by him at first, but she's still trying to find a "great love" and certainly believes it exists.


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