Married at First Sight alum Bennett Kirschner has revealed why he and Amelia Fatsi broke up and what went wrong.
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Court documents obtained by E! News revealed that Bennett and Amelia had quietly filed for divorce in Virginia one month earlier, in October 2021.
Bennett appeared on the Married at First Sight -- Decision Day Dish: Nashville special, which filmed in March and aired on Lifetime on May 10, and explained the demise of his marriage to Amelia.
"It reached a natural point in its progression and we both realized that we had passed through the honeymoon phase. I, truth be told, didn't have much going on in Richmond; I longed for my community in New Orleans," Bennett explained, referring to how he had moved to Virginia for Amelia's medical residency after they wed.
And Bennett said Amelia "eventually decided to pursue a residency somewhere else," which threw an even bigger wrench into their plans.
"The fact we were both being pulled in opposite directions and our mutual, respectful recognition of that just kind of led to this very copasetic, sweet, teetering out," Bennett explained.
Bennett shared how his split from Amelia was "totally amicable," adding, "Everything was, like, completely cool, and we're still friends."
Amelia has been seriously dating a man for nearly two years now. She posts photos of themselves traveling and doing acrobatics together constantly.
Meanwhile, Bennett confirmed there's also someone special in his life.
"Yeah, sure! I've been seeing someone," Bennett said.
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Bennett shared of the woman he's dating, "She's very sweet, you know? We have a good thing going. We take really good care of each other and we're very sweet to each other."
"But it also has a certain degree of casualness that I really appreciate," he added.
Bennett said on Decision Day Dish: Nashville that he and Amelia had no doubt they were going to say "yes" to staying married on Decision Day for their season, which aired in Summer 2020.
"It was very explicit we would both be saying 'yes.' So Decision Day became something else; it became this opportunity to express our affection and love and commitment to one another. How I did that was the source of my nervousness," Bennett said.
But breakup rumors began swirling in Summer 2021, when the @MAFSfan Instagram account reported Amelia and Bennett had opted to go their separate ways and become single again.
@MAFSfan apparently received many messages from people claiming to be Amelia and/or Bennett's friends with information about the couple's alleged split.
One alleged friend wrote to the Instagram account, "BenMelia is no more. In his words 'she unexpectedly and inexplicably dumped me.'"
Another person claimed, "[I] can confirm that I saw [Bennett] make out with a woman who was not Amelia!"
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@MAFSfan also said someone had talked to one of Bennett's friends over the summer and Bennett said during that conversation that his relationship with Amelia was over.
Yet another Instagram user alleged at the time that Amelia had gone on a date with his or her friend.
"We were all very confused when [Amelia's new date] told us about [Amelia] because we were like -- ummm she's married," the user wrote to @MAFSfan.
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More people also wrote comments on Reddit about the supposed demise of Amelia and Bennett's marriage.
"I can confirm they're done. I have a friend in New Orleans who is friends with Bennett and said they broke up a few months ago," a Reddit user previously wrote.
When asked if the friend had revealed the reason for Amelia and Bennett's alleged split, the Reddit user responded, "She said that according to him, it was mainly due to the distance in the pandemic and communication issues. But I'm sure there's more to the story!"
During a June 2021 episode of Married at First Sight: Couples Cam, fellow Season 11 MAFS star Miles Williams FaceTimed with Bennett, who revealed he was back in his tiny house in New Orleans while Amelia was working hard at her medical residency in Richmond.
Although Bennett mentioned Amelia, he did not provide an actual relationship update, which allowed Couples Cam viewers to assume he and Amelia were still together.
It appears Bennett and Amelia's breakup must have happened some time after Valentine's Day 2021.
On February 14, Bennett wrote a long post in honor of his best friend, Harry, who served as the best man in Bennett and Amelia's wedding, and Bennett confirmed his relationship with Amelia was still going strong at the time.
"One year ago today, I got married to my love, Amelia... And before you ask: YES, Amelia and I are still together!" Bennett wrote in part.
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Amelia and Bennett had met each other twice in public settings prior to their wedding day, and so they believed their Married at First Sight wedding was fate.
They ended up being a fan-favorite couple on Married at First Sight due to their quirky personalities, unique outlook on life and relationships, and their apparent instant connection and fast-growing love.
But Bennett was a little taken aback during the season when Amelia admitted she had signed up for Married at First Sight just for a fun adventure rather than a lifelong commitment.
Regardless, Bennett said their romance was very "serendipitous" and he had experienced "a truly transformative relationship" with Amelia.
After remaining married on Decision Day, the pair gushed about their love for each other on the reunion special.
"Amelia, you are so funny. You are so generous with your spirit to everyone around you, and it has been nothing but a source of joy having you in my life. I have a little surprise for you," Bennett told his wife in front of the experts.
Bennett then unbuttoned his pants -- which shocked the experts, as they worried he was about to strip in front of them -- and showed Amelia a tattoo he had gotten below his pantline with Amelia's initials "AF" inside of a heart!
Amelia was speechless and called Bennett's gesture "crazy" and "absurd," but she absolutely loved it.
"I guess this means we're probably going to be married forever," Amelia said.
Bennett said he and Amelia had a bright future ahead of them and they'd be heading to Virginia soon. Bennett planned to split his time between Virginia and Louisiana.
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Fellow Season 11 couple Woody Randall and Amani Rashid-Smith appeared on the Decision Day Dish: Nashville special with Bennett and are still together.
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