Married at First Sight star Chris Collette has revealed if Alyssa Ellman was ever finally honest with him and told Chris that she just wasn't attracted to him.
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Alyssa, 30, and Chris, 35, were matched for matrimony on Season 14 of Married at First Sight by the show's experts Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Dr. Viviana Coles and Pastor Calvin Roberson.
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Once Alyssa and Chris met and got married as strangers, it only took one night for Alyssa to determine they weren't a good match and she'd feel uncomfortable sleeping in the same hotel room as her husband.
Alyssa called Chris "immature" and had heard from his groomsmen how he's an opinionated man who can be "condescending," which essentially sent Alyssa into a tailspin of tears.
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While Alyssa told Chris after their wedding her problem lied with their different hobbies and lifestyles as well as his alleged condescending nature, viewers have been questioning if Alyssa wrote Chris off the second she saw him.
During Wednesday night's episode of Married at First Sight: Afterparty, Chris watched back a Season 14 clip of Alyssa basically admitting to Katina Goode and Jasmina Outar that she didn't find Chris attractive during a beach conversation in San Juan, Puerto Rico during their joint honeymoons.
"My personal opinion, and you can correct me if I'm wrong, I think you're not physically attracted to him," Katina tells Alyssa in the footage.
"When I saw him, did I feel like that, like, physically wasn't what I would normally be attracted to? Yes," Alyssa admits. "Did I feel like what I asked for from the experts was given to me? No."
"I would have rather them tell me, 'We don't have a match for you,' then match me with somebody who doesn't align with me."
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Alyssa then appeared to tell the women that she would take their advice and finally have an honest conversation with Chris in which she would directly tell him he was not her type and she didn't find him attractive.
However according to Chris, Alyssa has still never told him that -- even to this day -- and that's why he continued to have difficulty deciding if it was time to give up on their marriage.
On Afterparty, Chris told host Keshia Knight Pulliam that he never had confirmation of Alyssa's feeling regarding his looks.
"I have thought since the night of the wedding that she's not attracted to me," Chris admitted. "And she has never, to this day, said that."
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During a previous episode of Afterparty, Keshia had bluntly asked Alyssa, "Are you attracted to Chris?"
And Alyssa had responded at the time, "He's not my type."
Keshia said she understands how a person may not be someone's type but Alyssa dating her "type" was clearly not working out for her since the dog rescuer felt the need to marry a stranger on reality television.
"And I don't hold that against her, right?" Chris insisted. "I have thick skin. We're all from Boston, we can take it. I'm not worried about that."
"The problem was," Chris clarified, "it was never phrased that way."
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"And so I couldn't figure out, without ever hearing that, is it just nerves and emotion and the situation -- or is it truly done?" Chris wondered.
There have been signs Alyssa shut down in her marriage to Chris due to his physical appearance.
During the matchmaking process, Alyssa appeared to describe how she wanted a rugged man with a little country swag, and once she met Chris, she joked about how he actually looked like a real estate agent.
When Alyssa had a meltdown after her wedding behind closed doors, she vented to a producer, "Physically, I do not see one characteristic in him that I asked for."
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Alyssa also told Chris during their honeymoon that her psychic had said her soul mate would have pretty eyes and a lion tattoo.
(Alyssa said an eagle tattoo on the show as a cover-up story to make Noi feel better since her husband Steve Moy has a lion tattoo).
And when Alyssa saw Chris with his shirt off for the first time on the beach in San Juan, she said in a confessional, "I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and so I am very careful about the words that I use, but I don't think Chris is my type physically and I think that's okay to say."
Alyssa didn't want to spend time with Chris on her honeymoon other than participating in a few activities, such as paddleboarding and playing tennis with a large distance between them.
When Chris asked Alyssa if she'd consider moving in with him once they returned to Boston, MA, she confessed how she wouldn't feel comfortable with that and her ideal scenario would be to share the apartment.
Alyssa envisioned Chris living in the apartment for two weeks and Alyssa receiving the place on her own for two weeks so she could still be a part of the experiment and spend time with her girls.
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Alyssa even vented during the latest MAFS 14 episode, "I do not want to talk to him! I hate him! He is a f-cking assh-le! He is disrespectful and rude, and he's doing me dirty!"
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Alyssa was furious when Chris questioned her intentions for going on Married at First Sight, and she added, "I'm a good person and if I don't come off that way on this show, I'm going to be f-cking pissed!"
Chris, not willing to give up on his marriage after less than one week, told Alyssa that if she was "all out," then he would be as well, but if she was even "one percent in," he'd be "all in" for her going forward.
Alyssa, however, refused to give Chris a straight answer, knowing she didn't want her experience and time on the experiment to end.
Married at First Sight's fourteenth season currently airs Wednesday nights at 8PM ET/PT on Lifetime and also stars Katina's husband Olajuwon Dickerson, Jasmina's husband Michael Morency, Noi and Steve, and Lindsey Georgoulis and Mark Maher.
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