The Bachelor alum Susie Evans recently revealed if there's a chance she'll get back together with Clayton Echard down the road.
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"Everyone thought that I broke up with him, but it was kind of mutual," Susie said during the April 27 episode of the "Bachelor Rush Hour With Dave Neal" podcast.
"We did try, and so many people DM me, like, 'We hope you get back together. People can change; people can grow.' But I was like, 'We truly were so different, Clayton and I -- like so different.'"
Susie said she and Clayton fought too much and have opposite goals in terms of what they want out of the future.
"I have a different view of what I want my life to look like vs. what he wants his to look like," Susie explained.
"I never imagined a traditional life for myself. I do want children, like, I want a family eventually -- and soon, I think, in the next five years hopefully. But I never expected for me or my husband to clock in for a 9-5 [job], clock out, and live for the weekends."
"That's not my vibe at all," she added. "I want my life to be a creative journey and an adventure. I've always lived like that."
The wedding videographer and social media influencer pointed out how "a big part of" her disconnect with Clayton was because he has an analytical mind and she has a more creative one.
"I don't think the relationship was good for my mental health," Susie admitted, adding how they felt "a lot of pressure" from the outside world.
Susie said she and Clayton had "a really tough balance" in their relationship because while they "loved each other so much" -- and she "could see all the good in him" and they had "so much fun together" -- they simply "butted heads" and didn't see eye-to-eye on most things.
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However, Susie said she learned a lot from her relationship with Clayton, and so she appears to have no regrets.
"One thing I really learned from him -- and it's great and really speaks to his character -- is that he was genuinely so willing to grow and evaluate himself, and he constantly was," Susie shared.
"There were some things that I won't repeat, and they were huge red flags, but in a funny way."
Susie went on to share a story about Clayton's perspective on dating when he played college football.
"He would be like, 'Dating you, I realized... I used to think I was the best boyfriend because the example of the men around me -- he was on a D1 football team -- all the guys would go out and cheat on their girlfriends, and I never cheated. So I thought I was the best boyfriend,'" Susie said.
Susie laughed and recalled, "And I was like, 'That is the minimum! That doesn't make you a good boyfriend, that makes you a decent human being! That's the standard!' And he was like, 'I know, I know... but with you I realized your expectations are high.'"
When asked if Susie gets jealous of Clayton's dates with other women, Susie dodged the question and joked, "Just don't be happier than you were when you were with me, even though you fumbled the bag."
Susie admitted while she and Clayton are "friends," they "probably won't be friendly forever."
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And before that, Susie said she tested out Raya but walked away feeling like most of the people on there were "clout chasers."
Susie also playfully revealed she had yet to experience a "walk of shame" since breaking up with Clayton and moving to Los Angeles.
Susie quit The Bachelor during her Fantasy Suite date with Clayton because he revealed he had slept with -- and also professed his love to -- both of his other Final 3 bachelorettes, Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia, earlier in the week.
Clayton went on to introduce Rachel and Gabby to his family, but then he determined he was the "most" in love with Susie, and so he dumped his other two bachelorettes simultaneously.
Clayton begged for another shot with Susie, but she returned for the Final Rose Ceremony only to break up with him under the assumption he wasn't her "person."
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However, Susie and Clayton reunited after the show wrapped filming, and they were an item who announced their love to the world on The Bachelor: After the Final Rose in March 2022.
Internet trolls slammed Susie for giving Clayton another chance and allegedly having no respect for herself. Both Susie and Clayton faced so much backlash on social media -- including death threats to Clayton -- that it affected their mental health and even turned the pair against each other at times.
Susie said that she and Clayton had dated for months, without really being compatible, because the show never provided them with the tools to establish a deep emotional connection.
Susie explained during a March episode of "The Viall Files" podcast that The Bachelor producers had influenced how she felt about Clayton during filming because he was presented to her in the most flattering light.
"I don't even know if I'm really supposed to say it, but there were things that were said or done throughout the process, where I was like, 'That was so thoughtful. That was such a thoughtful thing to have happen,'" Susie explained to Season 21 The Bachelor star Nick Viall.
"And then after the process is over, you find out that that was somebody else's idea. That was somebody who's been listening to me [in interviews] for months that was like, 'You should make this toast and talk about her character, and how you admire her as a human being.'"
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"[With] these things, I was like, 'How does he know me so well?' It's like, no, these are people in his ear... When we come out of there, I [was] like, 'Wait, you don't know anything about my character. You don't know anything about who I am,'" Susie said.
For his part, Clayton told Joe Amabile on the "Click Bait with Bachelor Nation" podcast earlier this month how he has a crush on someone new, a woman who lives in Scottsdale, and no women from Bachelor Nation have reached out to him or slid into his DMs.
"I don't know if there's a giant red flag waving above my head, but no one [is interested]," Clayton said with a laugh, adding how his DMs "have been dry."
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