The Bachelor bachelorette Andi Dorfman revealed all the issues she had with Juan Pablo Galavis during their overnight fantasy suite date in St. Lucia.

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Dorfman, who shockingly dumped The Bachelor star during Tuesday night's special episode, and the remaining Top 3 bachelorettes Clare Crawley and Nikki Ferrell each received a romantic overnight date with Galavis. While Crawley and Ferrell realized they had fallen in love with Galavis, Dorfman acknowledged she fell completely out of love with him, and if anything, felt disgusted.

A show source told Us Weekly Dorfman slept with Galavis and stayed up the rest of the night talking in their fantasy suite, resulting in the bachelorette forming a brand new opinion of him -- that he's an arrogant, rude asshole who didn't care about her.

"Waking up this morning, I could not wait to get out of the fantasy suite. I thought I was falling in love because I had genuine feelings for Juan Pablo, but the fantasy suite turned into a nightmare. I saw a side to him that I really didn't like and the whole night was just a disaster. I hope he did not think that went well. I really hope that he did not think that that was a good date," Andi told the cameras during last night's show, adding that she entered the process skeptical but had found instant chemistry with Galavis so she stuck with it.

"I'm not going to deny the fact that I had some great times with [Juan Pablo]... But I just started to realize that every single time I tried talking about my feelings or started to talk about something from my past, it was always him starting to tell his own story. It was all stories about him and not once did he really ask anything about me. I just started to realize that he didn't really care about who I was and what I thought and what I want in life! I just didn't see someone that cared for me."

Dorfman explained it wasn't just Galavis' apparent lack of interest in her that was the problem, she was also hurt by some of the things he had said in an attempt to be "honest."

"The amount of stories I heard about him, the name dropping, and then when he said he had an overnight with Clare, it was like, 'Seriously, are you kidding me?!' It was unbelievable and it was so inappropriate to me and it blew my mind that he thought that was okay to talk about. I'm not an idiot. I'm well aware of the situation. I don't need him to tell me about an overnight date with someone else when I didn't even ask! I would love to see any woman, when a man says that to her, and she doesn't just want to smack him across the face. Like, 'Oh yes, now please let me go on another date with you,'" she said in the confessional.

"He doesn't get it, clearly. There's just no filter with him, and him having zero filter comes across as him just not really caring. He thinks he can say whatever he wants to say and that everyone's going to laugh and still fall in love with him and that it's all fun and games. But it just gets to a point where it's offensive. It's not humorous, it's not funny, it's not cute -- it's just wrong. You just don't treat someone that you care about like that."

Dorfman added that Galavis does not have the qualities she's looking for in a man and potential husband.

"It's extremely important for me to be with a guy who loves me more than he loves himself. It's disappointing to have spent this much time [with him] and just now have figured this out. It sucks. It sucks to think back to all the emotions I had, and it's like, was I an idiot? Was I blind? Was I just trying to be as open as possible? I don't know," the bachelorette explained.

"I do want that love; I do want that to happen. And it's tough to put so much into it and just to know that it's not going to work. I know it's not going to work and I spent all this time here and I've done awesome things, and I'm forever grateful for that, but it's just not in me to sit here and be fake about it. But I know after last night, after talking to him, after getting to know him, and seeing what life would be like with him -- it's not even that I'm unsure. I know that I will not end up marrying him. I know that he's not the one... There's no doubt in my mind."

Dorfman continued, "I felt like and still feel like Juan Pablo does not take this seriously. He didn't really ask anything about me. I learned plenty of things about him. I tried to talk to him about things that were serious to me and his only response would be, you know, [kisses]. All he wanted to do was say it's okay and give me a kiss. It's so crazy to think how little he actually knows about me at this point... It's been eating me up inside."

Dorfman also noted that Galavis admitted he kept her around at the previous Rose Ceremony "by default." The bachelorette found his behavior "rude and immature."

Ironically, Galavis thought he had an awesome date with Dorfman in the fantasy suite and that their time together brought them much closer together.

"I think Andi could be the one. She would be my wife," Galavis told the cameras the morning after the date.

Galavis said they talked and laughed for hours, had great chemistry and an obvious connection. He loved her smile and thought she was very cute.

"Andi could be the one because I like the way she is. I just like it. I'm happy, very happy," Galavis added.
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